IVF BFN again.

[Yazlinda]

2 rounds of IVF failed. Had my Beta results negative. I feel numb. Not sure what we are going to do. We cannot afford to pay for another cycle and I cannot get time off work..I cannot afford to quit. Life is so cruely 💔😭😭 So many obstacles to want to be a mum. You go through so much. Each cycle gives you a glimmer of hope but then is cruely taken away. Never having to experience a BFP let alone a pregnancy. I wish all the wonderful ladies the best of luck. All you warrior women will always be in my prayers🙏. Thankyou for all the support. Xxx

[Italy300618]

I'm so sorry to hear this, it really is so cruel and unfair and the future is so unknown. Sending you lots of love at this horrible time.

We also can't afford to self fund, we are going to have to speak to the back, it is so unfair that we will go into debt to try to have our family. The price of ivf is ridiculous and I think it is so wrong.

Hope your heart mends a day at a time. You arent alone, and If you need to talk I am here 😥💔 xx

[Yazlinda in reply to Italy300618]

Thankyou. 😢X

[CharlieW1985]

Totally understand where you are coming from.. Got my BFN today and feel like I allowed myself to get optimistic and I should have put my guard up instead xx

[Yazlinda in reply to CharlieW1985]

I'm so sorry. It is truly soul destroying. Each step of IVF keeps you going because it gives you hope. Then it's gone. Life is so cruel. Sending you a big hug. Xxx

[CharlieW1985 in reply to Yazlinda]

Thanks. Need lots of hugs xx

[Cinderella5]

Im so sorry to hear this! I know exactly how you feel, it is so tough. Hugs.xx

[Hopeful_wishes]

So sorry it didn’t work for you, this is the toughest part of IVF I have decided, you give everything to climb over so many hurdles and then you get a cruel ending 😢 Sending you big hugs xxx

[Core]

So sorry to hear this, this is such a difficult journey, you put so much in physically and emotionally and to have that negative result is so hard. Sending big hugs hope you have lots of support around you xx

[Hidden]

I am so sorry to hear that. Ivf is such a difficult journey! You have been a true warrior! Sending you lots of good vibes and baby dust!!!

[ttcemmie]

This journey is a complete rollercoaster. One that has incredibly low lows, but so much hope in it too. So cruel and unfair when we have so much yearning and desire to be a parent, and so much love to give! People say to enjoy the journey with everything, but not with this. I would rather just get to the destination! Thinking of you, Yazlinda. This is a really difficult thing to go through, and a sad time with the negative result.

[Bellabrown]

Please don't lose hope .Miracles happen in this world and it will happen for you too

I have seen my freind with failed ivf and much depressed but in couple of months conceived naturelly.

Sending you hope and best of luck

[DJBebe]

It is so disheartening. We had a failed ivf last month and it is so upsetting. Is trying naturally still an option? I know a couple who after 5 failed ivf cycle felt pregnant naturally when they didn't have any hope for.

[Yazlinda in reply to DJBebe]

Each time it fails it gets harder. Then you try again and once again it gives you hope, each time you are told you have a good embryo your hopes go up then once again it all comes crashing down. My husband is away with work a lot, at times I don't see him for months so trying naturally is tough. Wishing you all the best for the future. Xxx

[KA2121]

I’m so sorry Yazlinda, my first round of IVF has just failed too so although this is your second I can understand your pain, how heartbreaking is this?

All I can say to you is cry, grieve and then when you are ready put your chin back up in the air, if you need a chat I’m always here xxx

[Yazlinda in reply to KA2121]

Im so sorry for your failed cycle. It really is brutal when you have so much hope, tears, every part of you invested, then nothing. It's over for us. I feel I have been left with no options and all the doors are closed. Wishing you all the best. Xxx

[Hope001]

I am very sorry to hear that, yesterday was my second round of ivf too and I got negative. My dear don't give up I know how you feel, I have been crying since yesterday but that will not bring back my little Angel (Embryo) just be strong God will make A way for you to go for the next round. Just pray and believe he will send you a divine helper. You Are not alone ❤❤❤.

[Yazlinda in reply to Hope001]

Im so sorry for your negatuve, sending you hugs. It really does hurt. It's the end of the road for us. We cannot afford another around and still have this failed cycle to pay off. There are no options left for us, it seems the universe has closed all the doors. Wishing you all the best. Xxx

[Hope001 in reply to Yazlinda]

Oh I wish I can help, but I believe in miracle God has been doing miracle for others I believe he can also do it for you too. You have done your best, At this point just live Everything for God to do . He is the God of yesterday today And forever. Just thank him for what he has done remind him how great he is. Please Yazlinda Dont Give up on yourself. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[Cici85]

I am so sorry Yazlinda, this is so heartbreaking and sad. I am not there yet but I can feel your pain. I get so scared sometimes thinking about ivf treatment.

Best of luck .

[sadievalentie]

Hey Yazlinda! How are you? I hope you are feeling better now. I am so sorry for your failed cycle. It's not an easy thing to deal with such news. You are going through so much. I feel so bad for you. This journey is full of ups and downs, that's why it's always better to keep your expectations low. That way, you won't get much hurt when hit by a bad news. Merry Christmas girl. I hope the next year brings some good news for you. Good luck. Stay blessed. Bye!

[alockie]

I am sorry to know this. Further treatments depend on the reason why your IVF-s failed. If you can afford I would recommend doing PGS NGS that might increase your chances. Good luck x

[LorrieWalden]

Hi Linda! How are you now? I am so sorry for your failed attempts. I can understand how hard it is to balance between work and treatments. You can't even leave work and focus on your treatment, because then how will you pay for your treatments. You should wait for a while, save some money and then go for treatment again. Also make sure this time you visit a good clinic. Clinics can also play a vital role in making these treatments successful. Everything will be fine. I hope things get better for you. Good luck. Stay blessed. Take care. Bye!

[Alyssa123]

Hey Linda! I hope you are feeling better now. It's so hard to deal with these things. I must say, you are such a strong woman. You were trying to manage work with treatments. That's something not everyone else can do. You deserve some rest. So don't think about opting for any treatment now. You need to save money and then take time off from your job. So you can only focus on your treatment. I hope this helps you. Good luck! Stay blessed. Take care. Bye!