Another loss I think. Feel so sick with sadness

[Violet180]

I tested positive on 30th but have only had one beta of 545. I was due for another beta on monday. But I have started cramping and bleeding and the clearblue test has dropped back to 1-2 from 3-4 weeks.

I feel so sad and sick. Is this ever going to work for me? It doesn't seem likely. Cant stop crying and cant face going to work.

[Klndmr]

Aww hun I’m so sorry you are going though this... I myself had 2 chemicals naturally conceived and 2 chemicals conceived through ivf last year... it really sucks....

Call your clinic or EPU or even go to a&e and request bloods and check the hcg. I really really hope it’s just a faulty test and things turn out positively.

Sending much love and hugs your way 💕💕💕💕💕💕🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

[Violet180 in reply to Klndmr]

Thanks so much for the kind words.

[Angels2us in reply to Klndmr]

So sorry , but don't give up hope , I have been in the same situation I got a posture on 24dec , but now nothing I stop all drugs on Friday and I am waiting for the bleed on a tiny amount so far xxxxxxx

[Gem2410]

I’m sorry to hear this. I hope everything works out. I have my fingers crossed for you. I had a chemical pregnancy three days ago. But mine went from positive to negative. I’m always here for a chat. Good luck 🤞 xx

[MrsH17]

I know your cramping and bleeding but the clear blue test isn’t a good indication as the further you are the high amount of HCG can cause the hook effect.

Is the bleeding getting any heavier?

Also, work comes last. Look after yourself and worry about work later. Xxxx

[HollyT7]

I just wanted to send you a message with a hug. Our first ivf ended in a chemical and it just felt devastating, you finally think you've cracked it and then a spanner gets thrown in. We decided to be sad for a day and reasoned that the little blasto would not have been that healthy child that we all wish for or it would have been able to stay, and then we tried to look forward. Even thought it was so hard. Know this...we got a bfp with our next try so it doesn't mean it will happen again. And another important thing, you know you can get pregnant. lots of positive vibes xxx

[Violet180 in reply to HollyT7]

Thank you for the virtual hug and kind words.

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry Violet, truly heartbreaking!!💔 Love to you both xxx

[Lots8788]

So so sorry. big hugs to you xx

[Violet180]

Thank you all for words of support.

Still bleeding and tests now are all lighter than when I got BFP. Final step will be blood test tomorrow.

With my second loss/chemical in a row and completely negative PGS results, I am having a hard time believing it will happen for us. That was the 4th round /collection. Can maybe squeeze funds for one more try ....but that would be the final one as I am 42 this year. Why believe it will turn out any different?

Angels2us and Gem2410 I am sorry you both have suffered through this now as well. It really really sucks.

[Gem2410 in reply to Violet180]

Im so sorry. It’s so unfair xx

[Frussy]

Sorry to hear this .sending you lots of love xxx

[Hidden]

So sorry Violet180 xx

[andromedae9]

So sorry Violet xx

[Violet180]

Blood test results showed a loss and have been told to stop meds.

[Mazzath1 in reply to Violet180]

Really sorry to hear this. Xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Violet180]

💔 I know how this feels! Sending love & hugs. Be kind to yourselves.xx