Think I might be having another missed miscarriage!

[Bluebirds7]

I am feeling very nervous right now as this is my forth pregnancy with previous three ending in miscarriage!

In the last couple of days my breast are no longer sore and I don't feel bloated any more. The only symptom left is frequent peeing!

All my miscarriages have been missed miscarriages so have had very little warning, but losing symptoms has been one of the signs!

My only hope is this one was as a result of IVF, so I'm hoping the loss of bloating etc might just be my ovaries finally settling down after all the IVF drugs ( I was bloated by half-way though stimulation).

Has anyone experienced this after IVF or just in non-IVF pregnancy, and still been pregnant?

[Tiddly1984]

Hi Bluebird, can you get your HCG levels tested. You’re right in that the loss of symptoms can be as a result of the medication wearing off but knowing for sure may help to alleviate your anxiety. Hope all is well...x

[Bluebirds7 in reply to Tiddly1984]

Thanks for your reply. I have an ultrasound on the 6th, so just need to try and stay calm til then! I am really clining to the hope it is just the IVF bloating going...but I have a horrible feeling it's not that!

[Tiddly1984]

You’re welcome. Yes please try to stay calm. Pregnancy hormones can fluctuate and the medication can have an effect too. I also had so many symptoms coming and going and even now my boobs are sore on and off. I’m sorry for your previous losses and hope all goes well with this pregnancy. You deserve it...x

[Bluebirds7 in reply to Tiddly1984]

Thank you so much, really appreciate the reassurance x

[Tiddly1984 in reply to Bluebirds7]

Welcome 🥰 x

[dreams28]

Yes this happens at the begining alot. Some days i felt pregnanat and other days i found my self feeling torally normal and convinced that I am no longer pregnant. All was well both times and I too had several miscarriages concieved naturally previous and in between my successful pregnancies. Good luck hopefully all os fine in there.

[Bluebirds7 in reply to dreams28]

Thank you, that's so good to hear. Sorry about your miscarriages. But great to see you've had success amongst them x

[Cook7786]

Hi Bluebird,

I have spent the last 10 days worried. I have had no symptoms what so ever. No sore boobs, no sickness, no fatigue. Literally nothing. (I did cry one morning, but I’m sure that was genuine worry)

My personality was flat so yesterday we rang a private scanner and they scanned us later that day. I was so sure I wasn't pregnant. But that little seedling was moving about with a healthy heart beat and looking like they were very settled! I’m now 9 weeks 4 days.

The no symptoms drama - some would say was lucky - but with that comes so much doubt.

I wish you a happy scan - you’ll be a new person afterwards xx

[Bluebirds7 in reply to Cook7786]

Thank you for the reassurance. It really is helpful to hear all these different stories.

And congratulations! What a lovely way to start the New Year x

[Mishmash12]

Hi hun I had a mmc this year and all my symptoms went... x

I now done a fet and am 13weeks tomorrow I had symptoms that come and go for days I've been so worried I had no sore boobs no sickness nothing I just didnt feel pregnant this time round but at every scan baby is there waving there hands and kicking there legs.. I no how scared you must be but have hope and faith you little baby bean is in there I thought I lost baby so many time because all symptoms had gone as well as me having some bleeding but baby wasnt going anyway xx try stay relaxed easier said then done I no xx good luck hun xx you be fine xx

[Bluebirds7 in reply to Mishmash12]

Thank you very much x Congratulations to you! I am starting to relax a bit after hearing so many other people have lost symptoms and been okay. I really hope I am one of them x

[Marylyn]

Check your folate ,vitamin b12,iron,vit D ,magnesium levels .Unbeknown to Drs low vitamin b12 levels can cause infertility,frequent miscarriages,foetal abnormalities.Any level below 500 requires suppliments .Once pregnant or breastfeeding it should be kept 700 otherwise babe will be deficient.

[Bluebirds7]

Thank you for the advice . I think my vitamin levels are okay, I've been taking a pre-natal multi vitamin for years now. Also one of my bloods test for recurrent miscarriage showed very high vitamin B12 levels, so much so doctor told me to stop taking them! So now I just take folate and vitamin D!

[Bluebirds7]

Just wanted to say thanks again ladies for all your reassurance. I had my scan this morning, saw a lovely strong heartbeat and it's measuring perfect at 8 weeks 5 days! So happy and relieved. I have another scan in 11 days so that's great too! xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Bluebirds7]

Lovely news! Glad to hear all is well!xx