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Our first embryo transfer!

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We just had our first embryo transfer. We set our hearts on two embryos and as we had 6 embryos on day 4, we thought that would be possible. However today the embryologist told us only one is in blastocyst stage and the rest are there but slow, two are at the stage right before blastocyst which is not bad...

They advise us to go only with the one as it’s our first round and I’m 35 years old. We suggested to wait till tomorrow to see how the rest doing but the embryologist advise us against it.

I’ve been told I’ll receive a call tomorrow to let me know how the rest of embryos doing and if they have developed to blastocyst and could be freeze.

I’m very negative and I can’t keep calm, I really hope our embryo implant, keep me in your thought and wish me luck.

Mara xx

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Core profile image
Core

Good luck xx

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Mara84 in reply toCore

Thank you Xx.

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Italy300618

Wishing you lots of luck xx

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Mara84 in reply toItaly300618

Thank you so much xx

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donnielime

Good luck!! Stay positive!

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Mara84 in reply todonnielime

I’ll try! :) xx

Good luck xx

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Mara84 in reply to

Thanks 🙏🏽 xx

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Lisamarie4583

Good luck xx

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Mara84 in reply toLisamarie4583

Thanks 🙏🏽 xx

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Jessy1280

Hi mara!

Good luck! Just to reassure you I was only allowed one embryo transferred at a time (that's a good thing) and I'm nearly 39. Finally bfp for me.

You can do it!!!! X

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Mara84 in reply toJessy1280

I really hope so, thanks 🙏🏽 and good luck to you too xx

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lc3055

Good luck!! Xx

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Poppyhead

Wishing you all the luck in the world, it was not that long ago we were in the same position. Xxxxx

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Mara84 in reply toPoppyhead

Thanks dear. Hope it worked out for you xx

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Poppyhead in reply toMara84

We are going for week 8 scan tomorrow - hoping all will be as it needs to be 🤞

Xxxxxxxxxxx

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Hope4another

Good luck! X

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Mara84 in reply toHope4another

Thanks 🙏🏽 Xx

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OT87

Hi Mara84.

We nearly had 2 ready the day before transfer; but then we had only 1 embryo transferred as it was the best one, 3 frozen, the next day we got a call to have another frozen aswell.

Good luck! X

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Mara84 in reply toOT87

Thanks, hope it goes well for you too xx

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mimisquiz77

I wish you all the best of luck! Xx

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Mara84 in reply tomimisquiz77

Thank you so much 😊 xx

Good luck Mara I'm sure they'll get there. The embryologist do everything they can to help. I wanted to have two transferred however they said no. I wish you lots of luck. Xx

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Mara84 in reply to

Thanks, best of luck to you too xx

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PrayingforJKM

I’m praying that your embryo will successfully implant and also that you have positive thoughts. God bless you!

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Mara84 in reply toPrayingforJKM

Thank you so much, keep us in your prayers. It meant a lot to me xx

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lilou3110

Hi !

I had 5 transfers, everytime with 2 embryo (average quality) , all bfn. Last time i had one embryo who achieve blastocyst stage and my Doctor refuses to put 2 , he just wanted to transfer this one . I m 8 weeks pregnant for the First Time . You just need one . 🙏🏻 Have faith and believe ! It Will happen eventually . Best of Luck ❤️

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Mara84 in reply tolilou3110

What a lovely news! Congratulations 😊

Story like this give me courage.

Xx

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Bubunoto

Hi Mara,

Any updates from today?

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Mara84 in reply toBubunoto

Hi, thanks so much for asking, not a great news, non of our embryos made it to the blastocyst stage, thank god for the one we were able to transfer. I'm waiting to hear about progesterone level as its apparently very important.

hope you are having a good day xx

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Bubunoto in reply toMara84

I am so sorry! You are probably devastated 😔 I hope everything works out for you and the embryo they transferred develops into a healthy baby! Sending you lots of love 🙏🏻

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Mara84 in reply toBubunoto

yes dear, not what I was expecting. You know I was on diet to prepare my body no coffee or wine, lots of healthy eating, so I was really upset when embryologist told me the news. lets hope my one embryo would work. thanks again for asking.

how are you doing? xx

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Bubunoto in reply toMara84

I am good, thank you. I will have my FET at some point, hopefully not too long now. Good luck ❤️

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Mara84 in reply toBubunoto

Wonderful, finger crossed we both will be pregnant ❤️Xx

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Solly-44

Good luck lovely! It’s a lot to take in but try to stay calm and focus on the little embryo on board for now. Xx

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Mara84 in reply toSolly-44

I'm trying to do all the right thing, and to be honest there is not a single thing that I could do differently. Thank you for writing to me. I do hope we get lucky xx

Same age as you, only had 1 back and due it 3 weeks so don’t be too disheartened. Best wishes x

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Mara84 in reply to

I'm so happy for you! thank you for sharing your story xx

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penman90

Hello lovely

Wishing you all the luck in the world ❤️ Time to try and feel really positive! I had one embryo transferred on my first try and I am now 11 weeks pregnant - It really is possible🥰

Hoping to read that you git a BFP in 2 weeks 🤞🏼 take care of yourself xx

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Mara84 in reply topenman90

Congratulations dear! I'm so hoary for you and your family. thanks for sharing your story and look after yourself xx

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penman90 in reply toMara84

Thank you ❤️

My advice now is try and keep yourself distracted - the 2ww is a super difficult time, but stay positive that it'll all be worth it. Sending lots of love and prayers your way xxx

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Mara84 in reply topenman90

You are very sweet. Thanks you so much, Enjoy your pregnancy, I always think of it as the stage that you have your baby for yourself :) xx

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