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Hi, I have had brownish discharge for the past 2 days. Not a lot, and mostly only seen when I take the pessary wand out. I’ve seen lots of people on here getting BFP on here that had ET the similar time as me, but our OTD isn’t until Wednesday and I’m not testing early.

Also been getting really bad headaches too.

It’s all over isn’t it?

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Kitcat12

Don't give up! Brown is good, as long as you're not bleeding fresh red blood with cramps it's certainly not over. It could be a bit of implantation spotting. Good luck x

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Hopeful26 in reply to Kitcat12

Can it be implantation spotting over a week later? I didn’t think it could be? Xx

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Kitcat12 in reply to Hopeful26

Usually the embryo implants around day 5/6 after transfer, I had implantation spotting during my fresh cycle on day 6 after transfer. The fact that it's brown means it's old blood, not a fresh bleed 😃x

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Hopeful26 in reply to Kitcat12

Thanks, this is my first cycle so I’m kind of blind with this. I just feel like despair all of the time xxx

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Kitcat12 in reply to Hopeful26

Please don't feel down, it's certainly not over yet! When are you testing? x

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Hopeful26 in reply to Kitcat12

Wednesday. I can’t destroy the last bit of hope I have by testing early xx

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Kitcat12 in reply to Hopeful26

Best of luck for Wednesday. Please try to stay positive, there's no reason to feel hopeless x

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Baypony

No it’s not! I had similar at 4dpt and then between 7-12dpt including some bright red spotting. Our clinic had given us a leaflet saying this sort of spotting was normal so we didn’t panic. Our consultant said the pessaries can irritate the cervix (think of all the prodding when putting them in) which is also extra sensitive due to all the hormones. I had bad headaches and dizziness too. At 14dpt we did a pee test (as we had to wait an extra 2 days for blood test, due to test day being Sun and then BH the next day) and got a strong positive. We are now 14w pregnant on our first attempt. All is not lost! Try to remain positive, and wait for the test. TMI alert...... I did the pee in a cup on test day and dipped the test in, then made my partner time it and tell me the result as I was so convinced it would be negative. It was a real surprise that it wasn’t so we did another two tests just to make sure!

Wishing you the best of luck and sending positive thoughts 🤞

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