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Hi ladies,

I couldn’t help it, I tested early, I am 7dpt, the HCG trigger I had was on the 6.7.19, so 13 or 14 days ago, depending on how you count it. Could I be testing a false positive? See photo. I should know better not to test, when I had my treatment with my little boy, I was so good, I did everything to the letter, but this is going to sound terrible, but I have the same feeling of unexplainable rage, that I had when I was pregnant with my little boy, it only lasted a month or so, but I literally have no tolerance for any idiot and have dropped the f* bomb I couldn’t tell you how many times in the last 48hrs and I’m so anti swearing, but every little thing is ticking me off, I didnt get any other pregnancy sign with my little boy, just this awful rage, not that This is a normal pregnancy symptom I realise, but for me I think it is. Anyway any advice would be appreciated, even if it’s to tell me off for testing early, I will not be offended, I have the up most respect for you ladies on here.

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Kitcat12

I'm sorry but this has really tickled me! What a great pregnancy symptom, just not taking any shit from anyone 😂 trigger should be long gone by now, so I say a tentative congratulations x

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pj2232019 in reply to Kitcat12

God I do hope it isn’t the trigger and god help anyone who even dares to upset me in the next month, the worst thing is I don’t feel apologetic in the slightest and yet I hate the thought of upsetting anyone, total contradiction I know. IVF is the most bizarre thing I have ever encountered in my entire life, but thank god for it or I wouldn’t have my little boy and possibly a sibling for him.

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Kitcat12 in reply to pj2232019

Don't be apologetic! Growing a person is incredibly hard, even at the very beginning. Own it!!

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MissSaoPaulo

Progesterone leading up to FET made me feel homicidally impatient and as that's one of the main pregnancy hormones I think rage is a totally valid symptom. I'm pretty sure the trigger would be out of the system after almost 2 weeks so - congratulations Mama Hulk!!!

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pj2232019 in reply to MissSaoPaulo

That makes me feel better, I’m glad I’m not the only one. So far I have upset the air steward on our flight home (my IVF treatment was abroad), the silly little girls on the airport bus who thought it was acceptable to put their bags in the buggy bit, the man at the water company today and of course the other half, who is about as much use as a chocolate kettle today. That’s just been in the last 48hrs, I dread to think what it will be like when I go back to work 😂😂😂

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MissSaoPaulo in reply to pj2232019

Was so stressed on the morning of test day I threw a wooden spoon at my OH. Can't even remember what he did to deserve that!!

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pj2232019 in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Hahaha that’s made me chuckle, bless. I’m definately feeling better.

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Cinderella5

I would have thought trigger should be gone. I cant talk, I test early too! Congrats! F bomb away!!😂xx

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pj2232019

Thank-you. 7 treatments and I have a little boy and hopefully now a sibling for him, it’s been the longest journey, but it happens, I hope you all get your babies soon, it took me years, so many BFN’s I’ve lost count, so many treatments that didn’t work, it’s gruelling, but it’s so worth it in the end.

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HopeTTC18

Congratulations, hope it all continues to go well x

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Lots8788

Congrats x

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pj2232019 in reply to Lots8788

Thank-you

Love this post , hehe the rage ,congrats!! X

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Mamaofstevie

I had the same f bomb rage with both pregnancies too 😬😬😬 it’s real!!! My husband even moved out to a hotel because he thought that’s what I wanted 😲😲 it’s definitely a symptom and the trigger is out!

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Hahaha I made my other half go to work early yesterday, as I couldnt be responsible for my actions, I was so mad and I can’t even remember for what!!! It makes me feel so much better that I’m not the only one.

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Klndmr

Trigger must be gone by now sooo oooo get ready to be fat and hungry yeeeeeee 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Congratulations 🤗🤗🤗🤗

I'm an early tester as well... Last round started testing from 5dp5dt 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Congratulations that’s lovely news & congratulations on having your little boy too 💙P.s it did make me chuckle to read your only “symptom” at least you have a justified reason 😜 all the best with your pregnancy I hope it goes well xoxo

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