Looking for hope I suppose

[Noah1981]

So ladies today I’m 12 days past iui done a test 5am this morning and it was negative official test day isn’t till Tuesday tho .Do you lot think Im out of my own rat race I’m having with myself or am I silly to think I could still get a positive.Im so annoyed I’ve done the one thing I promised myself I wouldn’t TEST EARLY 😢😢 my oh is very optimistic and I suppose I wish I was too Im normally a positive person although I worry about everything I’ve just lost hope 😢😢

[Rella22]

There’s still time hun hang in there. Praying for a positive for you.

[Noah1981 in reply to Rella22]

Thank you x

[Niki_B]

Hey hun remember with us ladies most of us have a 5 day old embryo transferred...in your case your 12 days minus 5...so technically we would say your 7dpt...does that make sense? If so hun it's still early and it could still change. Got everything crossed for you lovely hang in there xxx

[Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B]

Thank you lovely all this confuses me so even with iui can I look at it like this and still hope xx I’m still so naive to this process xx

[Niki_B in reply to Noah1981]

Yes because iui they just inject sperm near your tubes/ovaries right? so still takes 5 days for that embie to turn into a blastocyst and make it's way down your tubes into your uterus to implant. I got everything crossed for you hun xxx

[Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B]

Yep you got it that’s the process 😉 thank you niki you have given me back some hope I’ve taken away from myself xxx

[Niki_B in reply to Noah1981]

I had a pretty strong positive at 7dpt (i sadly miscarried at 11 weeks 😥) which is what you technically are speaking in IVF terms...but lots of ladies get positive a bit later at 8,9 or 10 days. Dont want to give you false hope I'm never one to do that, but in your case i think it could possibly change 🤞🤞💗

[Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B]

Thank you sweetheart I’m sorry for your loss I hope your onward journey is a successful one and thank you for giving me some hope I can walk to work now with a little spring of hope in my step take care and thanks again I really appreciate your reply xx

[Niki_B in reply to Noah1981]

Thank you hun 💗 I really really hope it changes for you will be thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed! 🤞😘 xx

[Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B]

I will keep you posted xx just seen your in newzealand my sister is too in Auckland xx

[Niki_B in reply to Noah1981]

Oh wow awesome, yeah I'm originally from Canada but have lived in New Zealand for 20 years now 😊 I'm in Wellington xxx

[Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B]

Niki-B so do you think when my official test day came Tuesday and my clear blue was negative with a late implanter is there a chance I’d get a positive a bit later in the week 🤞xx I’m getting more and more apprehensive as the day draws closer xx

[Niki_B in reply to Noah1981]

Would that make you 10 or 11 days past transfer? (If we were going off you being 7 days past transfer the other day) I'd say by then you should see a positive on a test...also I wouldnt use a clear blue test I would use a FRER (First Response Early Result) as they are the most sensitive tests out there. And make sure it's the early result one not the rapid result as different sensitivity. If its negative then I'm sorry but that's probably it as you should see something by then even a faint line. I've got everything crossed for you 🤞🤞💕

[Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B]

If we are going saying I was then 7days by Tuesday technically your wayvif working it out I’d be ten days xx

[Niki_B in reply to Noah1981]

Yeah you should see something on a FRER test by then for sure. Small chance of getting a positive after that but highly unlikely and alot of the time late implanters turn into chemicals or not viable. Have you not tested since? Really hope you get a positive Tuesday 😘xx

[Noah1981 in reply to Niki_B]

No not tested since tomorrow will tell all thank you xx

[Niki_B in reply to Noah1981]

Got everything crossed for you hun. Not long now till you know 😘 xxx

[Solly-44]

Oh love, don’t be annoyed with yourself, it’s beyond tempting and I imagine there are very few people on here who don’t test early! I certainly have done.

Like Niki said, it is still early when you work it out like that. My otd was 14 days after a 5 day transfer. I know that’s later than some but I guess it’s that for a reason. There was a post on here recently about a woman who was negative the day before her beta and then had a lovely surprise. Don’t lose hope and don’t beat yourself up about it. A BFN is always heartbreaking but you’re still in the game and we’re rooting for you! Xx

[Lexigrace2017]

I feel u girl, we awaiting out first appointment to start IUI AND MY PARTNER IS so positive myself on other hand is shitting it tbh I'm so so scared its unbelievable we just want this roller-coaster to give us break after all these years I'm starting to loose hope of ever been a mum, I'm usually due cycle day 27 but today is day 40 on cycle and still nothing himself is happy but I can't help think there just late I don't wanna be stupid buy test and not be I'd feel lowsey then.. I'm always hear if u ever need chat we girls in this together and hopefully soon we get mericle we craving so long for xxx

[Noah1981]

Awwh bless your heart .If I was that late I’d be pulling my hair out I’d personally put yourself out of the wonder zone and do a test your torturing yourself I e got everything crossed for you and maybe you be lucky this time and not even know it yet 🤞🤞🤞🤞 thanks again I’m also here if you want to message me xx we are all in this together all rooting for one another xx

[Hidden]

I’m keeping everything crossed for you!

[Hidden]

I was just joining this community to check it out and I came across your post and I just wanted to say that I will cross my fingers and pray for you☺️ I'm only 16 so I have no experience in this topic, but I know that stress and worries are always bad for you. I hope it will turn out positive❤️ Stay happy, healthy and hopeful!! There’s no need to be worried yet, promise me that you won’t lose your faith just now❤️

xoxo Nova🥰

[Hidden]

I will be keeping everything crossed for you xx

[runsoncuddles]

Wishing you lots of luck xx

[Noah1981]

Thank you everyone currently hanging In There xx

[Kyell2]

Sorry it wasn’t a positive but it is still early for IUI. Hope Tuesday brings better news. Sending hugs xx

[Noah1981 in reply to Kyell2]

Thank you xx

[crisps88]

Good luck for Tuesday really rooting for you xxx

[Noah1981]

Thank you hunny xx