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I just wanted to wish all the others in their 2ww lots of positive thoughts this morning.

After a long wait sadly we’ve had a BFN this morning :(

I started spotting on Friday which turned heavier yesterday so I kinda knew it was game over for us.

Hopefully others on here will be luckier!

Love and baby dust to you all 💕

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Rubinaa profile image
Rubinaa

So sorry to hear that. 😔

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that, bfns are horrible!!xx

Sorry to hear that 💔 You can never be prepared for what this journey throws at you. Miracles do happen and your time will come. Look after yourself. Wishing you the best of luck for the future. X

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Poppy16

Sorry to hear this. Trusting you will get good news soon.x

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Dreamingofbaby

Very sad sorry to hear that. Look after u x

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Shanks_21

So sorry sweet sending big hugs xxx

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to read this xx

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pinto8

Sorry to hear that xx

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Dream32

I'm so sorry for you, take care of yourself x

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Laura_beth

Thanks all! This process is more physically and mentally demanding then I ever thought - I’m so grateful for this forum! It’s such a comfort to know others are having the same experiences.

In a way I know I’m quite lucky really, despite my top grade embbie not settling as it should, out of 10 fertilised eggs we had 4 frozen so we will see what happens going forward 🤞🏼

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Lynnedevine85 in reply toLaura_beth

So sorry ! Think your totally right to be positive! your 4 frozen embryos are just waiting for you , but it's just so upsetting and confusing. I'm on my 2nd 2 ww at the moment . I just don't know what to think ! Loads love to you . If it doesn't work for us this time gonna take some time for ourselves! Loads love xxxxxxxx

I’m so sorry, good luck next time 🤞🏼💪🏼🙏🏼 xx

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ladyc83

So sorry to hear that Laura thinking of you and sending hugs xx

Sorry. Take care xx

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kelsbels88

Awww Hun sorry to read this, thinking of you, look after yourself xx

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Franco81

💔 I'm so so sorry, it all just feels so unfair sometimes xxx

I'm so sorry thinking of you xx

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Lou9

So sorry to hear this. Xx

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E_05

So sorry to read this, this journey is so cruel. Look after yourself xx

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Loopielu

😞 sorry to see this. Be kind to yourself today xx

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_MrsC

So sorry to see this. Look after yourself in the coming weeks and months and let yourself grieve. xxx

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Babytalk

How shite! I’m sorry. When I got a BFN a friend gave me some good advice, grieve for a bit on this one, really feel it as it’s real and upsetting. But then set a time for your next cycle if that’s what you want to do. And have some time off (ideally a holiday) and remember what a fantastic life you have. Build yourself up over time and then try again. Also remember that what you want is to love something and give something a life and love, think about other ways to do that while you’re going through this - e.g. we got a cat! Good luck petal, you are not on your own, we are all with you and walking next to you. Xxx

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Laura_beth in reply toBabytalk

This is such lovely advice! Thank you.

We already have 3 cats and they have been vital to this process.. Id recommend cat cuddles to anyone struggling in the 2ww!! xx

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Babytalk in reply toLaura_beth

Shout out to the IVF cats 😺

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Scarlett13

So sorry for your result this time xxx

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Fredaflintstone

Sorry to hear this - it’s heart breaking xxx

Sorry to hear this, take care of yourself x

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Lolepops

Sorry to hear that . I had the same result a couple of weeks ago . Felt like it was the end of the world ! I have started to plan next cycle and feel more positive now . Time will help you feel better . Sorry it hasn’t worked for you xx

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Jonesjp

Sorry to hear your news hunny x x

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Hannah143

So sorry to hear your news, take some time to heel and rebuild your strength. Sending you big hugs 🤗 xx

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vic77

So sorry for your loss..bfns are just awful..take time and allow yourself rubbish days as better ones will follow..take lots of care xxx

I’m sorry to hear it wasn’t better news for you. Bfn’s are the worst 💕 xx

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hannahi

Sorry to hear this, take care of yourself xx

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A-Jay-

So sorry love..

Sorry darling, sending love your way x

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