2ww now over

[jamjar5060]

Just as I have been thinking this past week or so. We got a BFN this morning

I don't know what our next step will be. I guess I should have called the clinic this morning but I just couldn't bring myself to say the word negative.

Will call them on Monday with the result but this is our 3rd fail. This was our first attempt at blastocyst which didn't look very promising before transfer so I don't know where we go from here. Xxx

[-noodles-]

i am so sorry for your loss. even though i've been through a failed cycle, it's impossible to find words to console you during this time.

i hope you & your partner find strength to get through the days ahead.

be kind to yourselves 😘😘

[jamjar5060 in reply to -noodles-]

Thanks -noodles- it is difficult and frustrating and only people like us truly understand what this ivf rollercoaster is. I have my age against me as I'm 39 in September so that's worrying me also, I feel like time is running out. We will take things easy and try to prepare for our next attempt xx

[_MrsC]

I'm so sorry Hun. It's a really tough day to cope with. Take time to grieve and nurture your body back to health. Sending you a big hug. xxx

[jamjar5060 in reply to _MrsC]

Thanks _MrsC. It really is tough xx

[Cinderella5]

So devastating!! Sending you big hugs, know how it feels!!xx

[Gem11 in reply to Cinderella5]

I hope you're ok 😘😘

[Fredaflintstone]

Sending hugs to you on this very hard day. Look after yourself. I found me and OH went into ourselves when it happened to us for a little while but we soon got back to our normal loving selves so don't worry if that happens. Xxx

[Tugsgirl]

Sorry to read this. Please take care xx

[baby2016]

Aw jam jar I'm so sorry to read this. Such a huge feeling on dispair when it's a negative.

It's does take lots of people more than 3 attempts so don't give up all hope just yet.

Have some time to yourselves and try and get back to the old you before deciding on your next plan etc. This whole ivf lark is exhausting in every way xx

[Edinburghdreaming]

So sorry. Take the time you need to grieve and process it. Be kind to yourself. I know no words can help but just know you aren't alone xx

[Hidden]

Sorry to read this - sending hugs xx

[CountryCat]

So sorry to read this! Be kind to yourselves and I hope that, in time, you will feel much stronger. Sending hugs xxx

[jamjar5060]

Thanks everyone we will get through this. We have each other and I have you all for extra support. It's this forum that reminds me we're not alone. Sending hugs to you all and baby dust xxx

[Rosalietea]

Oh so sad. Be kind to yourselves and each other. I'm sure there will be very dark days ahead but you will make it through, just one day at a time x

[Hidden]

So to hear this, take care of yourselves xxx

[lorraineb61]

So sorry to hear this, look after yourselves x