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What an awfully long week this is turning out to be. Had my 6 week scan last week following a BFP through FET, last week we so the gestational sac and the yolk sac unfortunately we couldn't see the fetal pole which we hope is actually hiding in the corner. The tests are still very positive, pretty much no control line, however I camy help but feel "less pregnant" the last couple of days. I'm not sure of this is because i dont want to get my hopes up. I cant concentrate on anything else, I'm not sleeping and struggling to go to work, I'm still very gippy over smells and sore breaths but not as bad as they were, which I know can also be normal. Thought about booking a private scan for yesterday or today but there were none available so looks like I'm perserviring until Thursday. It's just as hard being pregnant as it is having treatment for us ladies 😭😑

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Hi hun, I will be keeping everything crossed for a positive outcome for you and I totally get what you mean about waiting and feeling stressed. I am waiting for my first scan following bpf and I am finding this harder than anything than has happened before this point. And I really doubt things will get easier the worry will continue 😒

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bms12β€’ in reply toKiedy84

It's awful isnt it! I feel exhausted from trying not to stress. I think in doing quite well actually, but not enjoying work as I work in A&E where a lot of early pregnancy bleeding patients come in, and other pregnancy issues. Plus it's a nightmare trying to avoid overdoing myself physically and avoiding portable xray machines, certain infections like chickenpox, shingles etc.. so people at work had to know I was pregnant early of course, and then they ask about everything. My in laws are just as excited and love them nearly as much as we do already, my SIL is so excited as were also best friends and I help raise her kids just like she will help raise ours and shes already bought a few small bits which just adds even more ti the pressure.. arghh!! Good luck for your scan and fingers crossed for both of us!!

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The uncertainty is awful... I been there several times (3 ectopic pregnancies and 1 mc). Also I work in the ICU as a nurse, so I Know exactly what you'e going through... not easy!

Sending lots of positive vibes your way an I am praying that all goes well for both of us!

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Thank you, yes it is hard with our jobs! Good luck lovely xxx

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The uncertainty must be awful hon, I hope these last few days pass quickly for you and you have good news on Thursday xxx

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bms12β€’ in reply toMissSaoPaulo

Thank you, yes I hope so too. It's much easier to plan ahead - whatever the result when you have a definitive answer

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Tske your scamming, money grabbing self away. Dont understand how anyone gets a kick from scamming people desperate for a family

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Cinderella5β€’ in reply tobms12

Hey honey! I'm sorry that you are going through this difficult time, it must be truly horrendous!! Will be thinking of you Thursday and keeping everything crossed for you. Just ignore these idiots and report the posts. I've had one on mine too & reported a few more soon others. They'll remove this weasel soon!! Lots of love.xx

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bms12β€’ in reply toCinderella5

How do you report them? Had a look but couldn't see. I only use my phone though so it's a different set up. Thank you, yeah hopefully after Thursday I'll be able to relax a little more! Good luck to you too x

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Cinderella5β€’ in reply tobms12

Im praying for you both!xx

I use my phone too. So if you have a look at a post and its nonsense then beside "reply" you should see "more" with a drop down arrow, it then lets you hit "report" and you can let admin know the reason. Its unfortunately a downside of forums....any clown can join up so try not to let it bother you, admin have quite a job on their hands removing these idiots but they get it done!

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bms12β€’ in reply toCinderella5

Ahh thank you, oh of course they'll take advantage of anyone. Like flies on πŸ’©. Doesbt bother me so much as i know other people will be x

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Sending lots of positive vibes ur way an i am praying that all goes well. Keeping all fingers and foot cross for you.

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Sending you lots of positive vibes & keeping everything crossed for you x x x

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