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The glimmer of hope was real!!!

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I can't believe it but today we saw a heartbeat!!!

I'm still in complete denial and absolutely terrified. Have never got this far before. My husband can't stop smiling at me which is freaking me out.

After the scan last week at 6+3 showing a completely empty sac and being told I would start bleeding soon, to the EPU trying to book me in for a D&C straightaway - to say its been a rollercoaster is a massive understatement.

Still so far to go and still brown spotting but there is a small amount of blood around the sac that we know about. Recommended that I rescan next week (which still scares me) and due to see the Obstetrician this week anyway as was pre-booked due to my ancient age!

Thank you so much to all you ladies for your support. As always you've been amazing.

x

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7AVA

Amazing news Mantaray75 - everything crossed that little fighter keeps on going! Xxx

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embiemomma

wow!! That's amazing! I've been waiting for your update and had no idea whether it would be happy or sad. So glad to read this!! I presume the bleeding is from the embryo that didn't implant? at least you will be closely monitored now so you should get reassurance hopefully. Congratulations!!! Xxx

Amazing news, really happy for you xxx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Mantaray75. Well done you - and your little "bean". Now you know why I always liked the first scan to be done at 7/40wks and not 6/40wks. Fingers crossed all continues to progress. Diane

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Autumnmoon

Oh that is wonderful!!!!

Omg Mantaray that is amazing news, I am over the moon for you both xxx

Ah, that's wonderful news! Hold on to that hope!! xx

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jhza700

That’s brilliant news! Best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy

Jx

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CC2018

Great news! I hope everything is okay xx

Yayayayayayayay. Brilliant news. Keep the faith! Must have been so amazing to see the little flickering dot! Xx

Yay xxxx

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Niki_B

Yesss!!! I told youbyonhang onto that hope!! This is amazing news im so happy this has turned around for you 😍😘💓

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72cloud9

so pleased for u my dear! keeping everything crossed for you x

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Novice_knitter

Well done you for getting through a very tough time! So pleased for you about getting the heartbeat - must have been amazing!! Best wishes for your next scan - not surprised your hubby is grinning from ear to ear! 🙌 💛 xxx

This truly awesome news! I’m so thrilled for you! So glad you stuck to your guns & didn’t get badgered by EPU. From what I’ve read lots of women don’t get a heartbeat detected till 7 weeks or so, 6 weeks seems very early to do a a scan. Hope you can enjoy being pregnant now ❤️❤️❤️ xoxo

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WeeMrsH

Amazing news! 😃 Everything crossed the pregnancy continues well xx

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Caza2009

Oh wow - I’m so pleased for you! This is amazing news xxxx fingers crossed for the rest of your pregnancy 🤞🏼 sending lots of love 💕

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Wishfully

Ahhhh, this is such good news! 😊 xx

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kumkums

Aww, thank God. That's real good news from you. Praying baby stays put and have a live birth. Wishing you well with the rest of the journey.

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Shirazlover2013

Such good news!! Good luck for the remainder of the journey xx

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kt_11

Wow, congratulations! Such great news after everything you’ve been through. Wishing you the best of luck from now on! x

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Lilli79

Ahhhh this is fab news, been looking out for your update. Congrats on your little fighter ❤️❤️xx

Wow amazing so pleased xxx

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DisneyJL

Yaaaaayyyy!! So, so, so happy for you! I know it’s difficult to get excited, but your little foetus has got this far against the odds, so it’s clearly a strong one! 😊 Congratulations to you both! xx

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WaywardGirl

Great news! Another hurdle out of the way. I hope everything continues to go well for you

Absolutely amazing news. What a journey!!!! Xxxx

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Tugsgirl

I’m so pleased to be reading this. It’s such a positive thing. I hope to see more from you soon xx

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gattonero

Hell yeah!!

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Blueberry16

Fantastic! So thrilled for you.xx

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XxjustmexX

This is amazing news 😍 xx

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Lou7744

Aww... this is amazing news!! So, so chuffed for you 💕 xx

Woo hoo!

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Hollibob

Fab news...

Glad you followed that deep down feeling!! X

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KittyK

So thrilled to see this! Fingers crossed your little one keeps growing strong. Keep us updated :)

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misswinky34

Aww I’m so pleased 💕

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vic77

Amazing..keep believing..much love xx

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CatDV

So happy for you my dear! 😀

Keeping everything crossed 🤞

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Poppy16

Delighted for you!!!! Wonderful news! Enormous congrats! Wishing you a healthy and happy remainder of pregnancy. Xo

So happy for you both!! Take care xx

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Cinderella5

Oh I nearly missed this update Mantaray....too busy with the MIL visiting! Im so delighted for you both, this is just wonderful news! Yippeeeee.xxx

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PeanutandCashew

Congratulations. So pleased Is was good news for you. x

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hannahkc

Wow! That's amazing to hear, stay strong mini Mantaray! Xx

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Twobaby

Hi mantaray.....thanks for ur supporting reply in my post....jst saw ur post with a successful story...I wanted to ask did u feel the heart beat of ur baby before u came to know the heartbeat on the scan ??

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Mantaray75 in reply toTwobaby

No, it was a complete shock that there was a heartbeat. I don’t think you would ever ‘feel’ the heartbeat and won’t feel the baby moving until much later on. It was more that my hcg was rising properly (although this can happen with a blighted ovum). I just didn’t feel it was 100% so didn’t want to go ahead with the d&c until I was sure. How are you doing at the moment? X

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Twobaby in reply toMantaray75

And how many weeks wer u exactly when u saw ur baby's heart beat.....and did u have cramp???

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Twobaby

Feeling pregnant....have slight cramps not much symptoms ....but my blood work has come negative but they saw a gestational sac in the scan so they are confused....and iam devastated..... Doctor said if blood is negative I shouldn't have any sac but I do.....iam really hoping it jst works and develop a cute lil one on my next scan....plss do pray....

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Mantaray75

I had a large bleed at 6 weeks without cramps. At 6+3 there was an empty irregular sac which I was told was non viable. A week later we got the heartbeat.

I had the odd fleeting cramp as things were stretching but not like the painful cramps I had when I miscarried.

When they say your bloods were negative what do they mean? If the hcg is dropping then that isn't a good sign. If hcg isn't even detected then I'm not sure how there could be a pregnancy sac.

When is your scan? Everything crossed for you. x

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Ajplus1

Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Congratulations xx

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