What to do on FET transfer day

[Core]

So my FET has been booked for bank holiday Monday. Question is what did every one do after transfer? On the last 2 I went home and rested but I have tickets to watch the spice girls (seated) and not sure if I should still go? I asked the nurse and she said of course it was fine but just wondered on people’s thoughts?

[Gueritarubia]

Exciting you’ve got the transfer booked in now! Last time I went back to work, same day, and it was business as usual. Didn’t do anything special or stopped doing anything, other than drinking alcohol Did yoga and Pilates as normal, walked, biked... and got pregnant! I think you can go if you feel up for it. Good luck Monday!

[Core in reply to Gueritarubia]

Thanks, feeling so tired from the medication at the moment so think I’m just going to have to see how I feel on Monday. How are you doing?xx

[Gueritarubia in reply to Core]

So annoying you feel pregnant before you even are! I’m exhausted and haven’t even started progesterone yet, guess it’ll get worse then. Scan tomorrow morning, hoping for transfer Friday.

To be honest I don’t care about when the transfer is, as long as it doesn’t get cancelled... worried about complications popping up... xxx

[Gueritarubia in reply to Gueritarubia]

Good luck today! Let me know how it goes. I got booked in for transfer Friday. Lots of baby dust to us all!

[Core in reply to Gueritarubia]

Thank you, all went well and now back home with my feet up for a few hours before Spice Girls! Good luck for Friday, keep me updated xx

[Gueritarubia in reply to Core]

Glad to hear it went well and that you’re taking a break before heading the the concert. Have a blast!

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Core. I would go home and have a little rest. See your concert, but no alcohol. Enjoy and I shall keep my fingers crossed all works out well. Diane

[Rosa19]

I am on day 8 of the 2WW. I am also going to see the Spice Girls! (Seated) I think you have to do whatever feels right on the day..... is the concert on exactly the same day as ET? Maybe don’t plan ahead too much and explain to a close friend your situation. I am still 100% going to the concert but have had a bit longer to recover. 🇬🇧✌🏽 Xx

[Core in reply to Rosa19]

Yeah it’s the same day as egg collection 😕 had a wedding today and just felt shattered by the evening so just going to have to see how I feel I think. How is the 2ww treating you?xx

[Kitcat12]

I would 100% go to the concert. We put so much of our lives on hold and sacrifice so much when going through treatment so I believe it's really important to treat ourselves whenever we can!

[Core in reply to Kitcat12]

That’s is true and if I missed the concert and it didn’t work I know I’d regret it!xx

[bms12]

I went shopping for the rest of the day and to the park with my niece's. You should continue with normal life. Go and enjoy the concert!

[Core in reply to bms12]

Thanks it’s good to hear what everyone does xx