Hi all, as the post states. I was very lucky to have a bfp after a round of IVF but I am in a constant mood of negativity and worry.
I thought after getting a positive test, I would be so happy and positive but it seems like the IVF rollercoaster is just beginning.
I feel awful for feeling so down, I’m so worried I’ll have another miscarriage.
My boobs have stopped hurting which was my only symptom. I am back in work tomorrow and am dreading it, I just want to know if our little baby is growing and ok.
I have 3 weeks to wait for our viability scan with the clinic. I know there is nothing I can do to prevent miscarriage but I’m looking for some hope that others have had little to no symptoms and gone into have a baby. Xxx
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Hey hun, I could have wrote this post a few weeks ago. I too never dreamed this anxiety and fear that would overcome me after I seen those 2 lines. I was terrified! I still am terrified everyday but it does get slightly better everyday...every week I'm closer to that 12 week mark and that next scan. I am currently 8+3 🙏💕
I know that 3 week wait till the first scan is horrendous. I wanted it to come so bad but then when it got closer I was terrified and didnt want to go! But it was all worth it when I seen that little heartbeat flickering away 😍
My boobs gradually got more tender and sore and the nausea didnt hit until week 5/6. Also some women don't get nausea. So I know how hard this wait is but hang in there hun, everyday is closer to the scan. Also please private message me at anytime ok I know how hard this is. Hang in there hun you are doing great 🙌😘💕💖
Hey, I hope things work for you. Dont be this sad. I can understand that after soo much of struggle one doesn't want to think negatively. I am in the same phase as yours. I also got my first ever BFP after years of struggling just recently. However, I am very silent about it and I am waiting for the first 3 weeks to pass by. REally praying that things go smooth for both of us. Just stay positive and strong.
I totally feel for you reading this, as this was me just 2 weeks ago.
I struggled so bad through out the 2WW, couldn’t eat couldn’t sleep and was constantly thinking negative. Test day came and I got my BFP with HCG at 396. I felt like a weight had been lifted. However I thought the days to follow would ease my anxiety, but it actually got worse. I felt like the tenderness in my breasts had subsided and that was the only real symptom I had. Anyway, 2 weeks on the swollen very sore boobs are back and I’m testing every other day and the lines are still very strong positives. I know it’s not the right thing to do and I should be concentrating on being relaxed but having a miscarriage previously also, it’s easier said than done.
So I wouldn’t worry about the soreness of your boobs subsiding, it comes back. Just remember everyone’s pregnancy is different.
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