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*updated * 8 weeks today and started with pains and bleeding ๐Ÿ˜”

Clover5
Clover5
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I know itโ€™s really common to get cramps and bleeding early on in pregnancy, but for me in the past it has always signalled the start of a miscarriage. Iโ€™m so worried and hate feeling like this ๐Ÿ˜ข. I wish I could fast forward a few months to know Iโ€™m at less risk of losing our baby XX

Update - I went for my scan this morning and thank god all was well ๐Ÿ™ Our little jelly baby was measuring fine and doing really well, so I cried my eyes out. Theyโ€™re not sure weโ€™re the blood came from but thereโ€™s no signs of any more in there, so fingers crossed thatโ€™s it and no more scares. Just wanted to say thank you to all you lovely ladies for your kind words and positive thoughts. Wishing lots of luck to everyone ๐Ÿ’•xX

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gracieboos

Ah bless you, I hope that everything works out ok for you Hun. I had lots of cramps for weeks & couldn't enjoy my pregnancy at all until I started to feel him move. It's so bloody hard after previous miscarriages x

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to gracieboos

Thank you Hun. I know you should try not to compare it when youโ€™ve had miscarriages in the past as it may be nothing, but itโ€™s so hard. Hopefully itโ€™s nothing to worry about x

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gracieboos
gracieboos
in reply to Clover5

It is exceptionally hard, I had no idea how much I would struggle especially in the earlier weeks. I had 3 scans before 12 weeks & 100% expected bad news at all 3 of them. It was a horrendous time... Makes me sad now as it should have been a wonderful time. I'll keep my fingers crossed for a positive outcome for you xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to gracieboos

I donโ€™t blame you as itโ€™s so difficult to relax and enjoy be pregnant when youโ€™ve had past bad experiences. Iโ€™m glad all is well with your pregnancy now and really hope you have a healthy one ๐Ÿ’• thank you ๐Ÿ™ xx

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HollieW

Try and stay positive. I have everything crossed for you xxxx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to HollieW

Thank you Hun xx

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Snez84

As the others have said, try to stay positive, although I know itโ€™s easier said than done. I had a bleed at 8 weeks with my son and all was ok. My fingers are firmly crossed xxx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Snez84

Thanks Hun. How long did it last for when you bled? Xx

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Snez84
Snez84
in reply to Clover5

Probably two days and it was when I wiped. I actually called my local NHS maternity clinic at the time and they had me in for a scan within a couple of hours to check all was ok. Pregnancy is such a rollercoaster isnโ€™t it. I hope the bleeding has started to settle for you xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Snez84

Thatโ€™s good they got you in so quickly. My clinic have been a bit rubbish actually and the first thing they said was have we signed you off. I told them I had been passed off to the midwife now but they said I could be scanned by them up to 10 weeks. Nobody has called me back after I left my details so I may try going through the nhs if it carries on. The bleeding isnโ€™t as bad now thankfully xx

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Devj

Aaw hun, sorry to hear youโ€™re having pains. Please try not to worry too much, can you ring your clinic and have a chat to them about how youโ€™re feeling? They maybe able to offer you reassurance.

Try not to think about the past (far easier said than done I know).

Try and relax a little xxx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Devj

Thanks Hun. I contacted the clinic but all the nurses were in theatre so theyโ€™ve taken my number and said someone will call me back. Hopefully itโ€™s nothing ๐Ÿ™ xx

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Devj
Devj
in reply to Clover5

Let me know what they say hun. Hopefully theyโ€™ll get back to you asap. Hopefully everything is easing up a little for you now xxx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Devj

Theyโ€™ve got back to me now and said they arenโ€™t to worried as itโ€™s not fresh blood but they have booked me in for a scan in the morning to check. Iโ€™m pleased theyโ€™ve managed to get me in and really praying itโ€™s nothing to worry about ๐Ÿ™ xX

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Devj
Devj
in reply to Clover5

So glad theyโ€™re not worried hun and theyโ€™ve got you in for a scan tomorrow. Itโ€™ll put your mind at rest seeing your little jellybean all fine on the screen. Take care, try get some sleep tonight xxx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Devj

Thanks Hun ๐Ÿ’•Iโ€™ll let you know how I get on tomorrow xx

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TRYING2016
TRYING2016
in reply to Clover5

Oh thats good news they got you in fast, i hope its all positive praying for you xxxx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to TRYING2016

Thank you so much ๐Ÿ’• xX

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Caza2009

No advice but just sending love and positive vibes ๐Ÿ’• xxxx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Caza2009

Thanks Hun xX

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Twobaby

Hi ...don't worry clover everything is hona b fine.may I know what wer ur beta numbers?

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Twobaby

Thank you, I really hope so ๐Ÿ™. They only did them the once on my otd and they were 397, so quite good xx

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Twobaby
Twobaby
in reply to Clover5

Ya ur beta numbers are good.....hope for the best.....

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Twobaby

Thanks Hun ๐Ÿ’•Iโ€™ve got a scan In the morning to check so hopefully itโ€™s nothing to worry about xX

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Tugsgirl

Sending good wishes your way and hoping that everything is fine. Itโ€™s a worrying time xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Tugsgirl

Thanks Hun. Hopefully it will pass soon and is nothing to worry about ๐Ÿ™ xx

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Cinderella5

Oh what a worry! Hopefully you've managed to speak to your clinic by now for a little reassurance. Really hope all is ok!xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks Hun. Iโ€™m still waiting for a call back after chasing them again just now, but they said they are really busy today. Iโ€™m not holding much hope out as I think they close at 5. Hopefully itโ€™s nothing to worry about ๐Ÿ™ xX

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Cinderella5
Cinderella5
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Good luck for tomorrow.xx

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Sherry07

Iโ€™m sorry to hear about the pain and bleeding; please stay positive x

And I was also thinking can it not be related to your second sac? I just read your previous post and thought well ... it might be that xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Sherry07

Thanks Hun ๐Ÿ’• I thought the same with the 2nd sac and thought it could be that so hopefully it is. Iโ€™m in for a scan in the morning, so going to stay positive and try and get an early night xX

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Sherry07
Sherry07
in reply to Clover5

Best of luck for tomorrow ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ Please do update us x

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Sherry07

Thanks Hun. I will do ๐Ÿ’• xX

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gracieboos

Good luck with the scan tomorrow. I'm really hoping you get good news. X

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to gracieboos

Thank you Hun ๐Ÿ’• Iโ€™ll let you know how I get on ๐Ÿ™ xX

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AllWeNeedIsluv

I'm with sherry hun. Think it could be the second sac. Wishing you all the best for scan tomorrow ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

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Clover5

Thank you Hun. Iโ€™m hoping itโ€™s just that. Iโ€™ll let you all know how I get on ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ™ xX

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Rowly88

Saw your post and just wanted to send you best wishes and all the luck xx

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TRYING2016

Goodluck for tomorrow thinking of you xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to TRYING2016

Thank you hun. Iโ€™m just at the clinic now, so hopefully weโ€™ll have some good news soon ๐Ÿ™ xX

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TRYING2016
TRYING2016
in reply to Clover5

Waiting xxx

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Sherry07

Hi, just read your update and it made my day :) Fabulous news xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Sherry07

Thank you Sherry07 ๐Ÿ˜Š yes thankfully all seems to be well, so we are really happy ๐Ÿ’• xX

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Sherry07
Sherry07
in reply to Clover5

So happy for you xx

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Cinderella5

Delighted to hear that all is ok!xx

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Clover5
Clover5
in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you Hun ๐Ÿ’• thankfully all seems to be well and no more scares ๐Ÿ˜Š xX

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