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Hi all! I'm new here so not really sure how this works.

Myself and my partner have been TTC for 3 years, we are at the end of our ICSI journey and find out the weekend if it has worked or not!

I am absolutely petrified of getting the results back and just don't know how I will react. Can anyone ease give me advice on how to relax or even control it a little.

TIA X

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aamiller405

Hi there, welcome to the forum. I haven't completed my first cycle yet so no advice on how to help these nerves, just wanted to wish you the best of luck xo

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Lewi100 in reply to aamiller405

Thank you for your reply, I wish you all the luck xx

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CJones40

I’m also on my first round of ICSI. I had my BFP a week ago so I’m probably not the best to give advice as I’m only a few days ahead of you! The wait is very long up to OTD and it carries on if you get your BFP. Just take it a day at a time. I found it helpful to have something planned for every day (-even if it was something small like today I’m going shopping for my grandparents.) Doing the test I thought I’d be quite calm but when I got the result I couldn’t stop crying, but I also had a realistic view that this is just another step- we’ve got a long way to go yet! The worry and wait continues!!

I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you that your your journey continues smoothly! Xx

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Lewi100 in reply to CJones40

Thank you so much for replying. What is OTD? Sorry I'm not up to speed on it all lol 🙈

I'm so nervous I feel physically sick.

Congratulations to you and I hope all goes well xx

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CJones40 in reply to Lewi100

Official Test Day. Do you have a blood test or use a pregnancy test? Xx

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Lewi100 in reply to CJones40

I'll be doing home test xx

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CJones40 in reply to Lewi100

Good luck!!! 🤞🤞 xx

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Debrakay1704

good luck xxx I tried keeping myself busy, walks, painting (paint by numbers) don't laugh not artistic at all but found it relaxing, it does help getting out of the house. xxx

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Lewi100 in reply to Debrakay1704

Thank you, I've been keeping busy with family... it just seems to be mentally frustrating xx

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Debrakay1704

It really is it never stops!! I am up and down all the time, take care and fingers crossed. xx

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SunnyDream

Hello! I wish you good luck from the bottom of my heart. After my first IVF cycle, I had ICSI and failed. I was completely devastated but I'm not going to stop. Hope to get bfp this time.

Hi, masses of luck. During both cycles so far I have used the 'Mindful IVF' meditation app.. they have sessions for each day of the cycle including the 2ww - it really helped me chill - even just for 10 mins each day - and get a more positive head on. Good luck xx

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Lewi100

Hi all! Quick update, yesterday was a bit of an overwhelming day!

Myself and my partner received our Positive pregnancy test for 2-3 weeks with the clear blue digital.

Will be calling the clinic first thing in the morning to find out my next steps of this journey 😊

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SunnyDream

Hey there! Are there any updates about your ICSI results? Still keeping my fingers crossed!

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Lewi100

Hi sunny dream, I had a positive test however awaiting 2nd scan as heartbeat was not picked up on 1st scan, keeping fingers crossed x

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