So I had a frozen transfer and it went well.... we sat patiently though the 2ww and got a BFP. We were so happy that we were pregnant. I had both tubes removed 6 years ago after an ectopic and so unfortunate internal bleeding!
We called the clinic and were booked in for our 7 + 2 scan!!! OMG I’m so excited.
We yet again patiently waited, and while doing so had all the right symptoms! I was peeing like a race yourself, sore boobs, weird dreams and of course the clothes were getting tighter!!
Well today was the day for the scan, unfortunately my husband couldn’t make it so thank god my mum could! We were called in and the scan began. I knew something was wrong as the nurse went quite and called in the senior midwife!
With a heavy heart she told us that there wasn’t a pole or heartbeat and our pregnancy was no longer viable!!
I feel empty, and strangely angry.
I wish you all the best of luck from the bottom of my heart but please remain optimistic. I don’t want anyone to ever feel like I have today!
I wouldn’t wish this headache on my worst enemy.
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I am so sorry to hear this. I am thinking of you. It is just so unfair. I hope that one day we all get to the end of this heart ache and come out into with a bundle of joy xx
Thinking of you, what a tough situation. Lots of love x
So sorry to read that Grace. It's just the biggest fear after you get a positive. Hope you have a lot of support around. All the best to you and your partner.
Hello Grace5777! You are a heroine for me! Really! I can imagine what kind of pain you feel! I am amazed by your resilience. You are not discouraged and completely convinced that this is not the end. I believe in you and in the fact that very soon, you and your husband will hold your baby in your arms and enjoy every moment of his/her life!
I'm on my journey to a long-awaited pregnancy too, trying not to lose my hope in a happy future! All my prayers are for you!
I’m so sorry for your loss, so devastating after a struggle to get pregnant.
I had a chemical pregnancy in 2017 so have an idea of how you feel. We took it as a positive it showed us we could get pregnant & after 6 years of not managing to it was progress!!! I can give you a happy story we are now 28 weeks pregnant with a little girl.
Please remember just because this pregnancy didn’t work doesn’t mean that next pregnancy wouldn’t. Lots of women who suffer a miscarriage will go on to have a healthy baby 👶🏻
Hope you have plenty of support around you & all the best take care ❤️xoxo
Hi Grace, I know this post is a year on now but I’m scared to go in soon for the same reason, I don’t think I have a fetal heartbeat anymore. It’s tough isn’t it especially after so much intervention and the high of actually getting pregnant then being dropped off the face of the Earth hey.
Just wondering how you got thru it? And did you carry on with any further attempts 🙂
Hello lovely!! It’s bloody hard, after that day I drank 2 bottles of wine and a pack of fags (don’t even smoke!) it was by far the hardest day of my life, I wanted to be alone and spent the night at home alone drinking!!
The good news is the next transfer I fell and I now have my beautiful little boy Joseph who is 14 weeks today!!
Please let me know how you get on! Is this your first?! Xx
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Devastated but moving forward with a word of caution to others
Seeing two heart beats 
Got to see our babies heart beat 😁😁😁
22 weeks scan *update*
