Hi ladies
I'm trying to think up a plan (to protect my heart, really) just in case our upcoming round is poor just like our first. Most doctors we've seen since our first round (15 collected, 14 mature, 8 fertilised with ICSI, a few made it to blast but only one good enough to transfer and none to freeze) have said that the issues we had with embryo quality could be my husband's dna fragmentation (which we've now got in the normal range)...however, an NHS doctor suggested it could be my egg quality. This is the first time I'm hearing this and it's sent me into a panic.
There's not a lot of data to support that my egg quality is the issue (no notes suggesting this from our notes from our first round, either) but we've had two miscarriages and two ectopics. I'm open to the fact that it could be me.
I'm trying to understand how a doctor or a clinic establishes poor egg quality so that we don't keep going and going on my own eggs (there's only so much someone can take) when we can look into an egg donor.
Can anyone explain this to me? Are there articles or books you've read that shed light on this?
How did you find out that your eggs weren't an option? What were the circumstances? I have an amh of 6.4 and I'm 33 - I've been told this is low for my age.
I don't want to do back to back rounds for eggs that just aren't good enough to make this work but my husband thinks I'm focusing too much on the concept that potentially it's my eggs that are the problem.
Can anyone help?
Thanks you.