Absolutely devastated!! 😓

[Ajplus1]

When the clinic starts the call with. “I’m sorry it’s not good news I’m afraid”

OH and I are completely shattered especially when we were over the moon on the weekend after two positives on HPT’s.

The clinic asked if we wanted to try another IUI back to back or have a meeting with The dr and go for full IVF. I said I needed time.

I broke as soon as I got off the phone 😓😓😓

[Lisaworthy1981]

I’m so sorry to read this post! I’ve had that phone call myself and I no how devastating it is!

Look after each other and take time to think about your next step!

Thinking of you xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Lisaworthy1981]

We will. Thank you xx

[Sweets1]

Oh I’m so so sorry to read this. Nothing I say will help, but I’m thinking of you. Give yourselves time now. Sending big hugs xxx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Sweets1]

Thank you xx

[Niki_B]

Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this 😓 I cant even imagine how you are feeling, that's just awful I'm so very sorry.

Take some time out and look after eachother and when you are ready hopefully you can move forward. Sending you a massive hug xxx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Niki_B]

We will. Thank you xx

[Tugsgirl]

Oh no 😢 I’ve been looking out for this post. I’m so sorry xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you hun xx

[hifer]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Thinking of youx

[Ajplus1 in reply to hifer]

Thank you xx

[jm22]

So sorry to hear this xox

[Hidden]

I’m lost for words. So sorry to hear this. xoxo

[Ajplus1 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xx

[Kyell2]

What awful news for you after the tests were positive. Sending lots of hugs your way xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Kyell2]

I know it’s definitely a shock. Thank you xx

[Kari55]

I’m so sorry to read this! Did they say that it was chemical? Take your time and be kind to yourself. Sending hugs x

[Ajplus1 in reply to Kari55]

They didn’t say much I think she could tell I was about to cry. I was thinking maybe that but I haven’t bled. Thank you xx

[Kari55 in reply to Ajplus1]

Lots of cuddles with your husband today xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Kari55]

Definitely needed xx

[TeenyTiny]

Heartbreaking reading this post 😢

Sending you lots of hugs 💗💗💗

[Ajplus1 in reply to TeenyTiny]

Thank you xx

[Novice_knitter]

Oh no, I’m so sorry to read this, thinking of you xxx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Thank you xx

[hopeful123456]

Sorry to hear that. Please take care!

[jengi]

Hugs to you my lovely. My heart breaks for you. Look after yourself, be kind and console each other. 😘

[Ajplus1 in reply to jengi]

We will thank you xx

[HattieLovesSalsa]

You were strong enough to give yourself time and that's great. A real wise choice there. I went straight for it after a BFN IVF, but really suffered and got very depressed and stressed throughout the cycle so wouldn't recommend it to anyone. It's important to grieve and I'm really sorry for your loss my lovely. Take it easy and best wishes xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to HattieLovesSalsa]

Thank you xx

[Cinderella5]

Oh no Im so sorry to hear this! Gutted for you both! Sending huge hugs.xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you xx

[AJJ123]

Oh no, I know how you must feel. It’s so unfair, don’t rush into anything - when your ready and able to cope with the possibilities again, that’s the time to try.

I got to the point where I gave up all my vitamins, stopped eating healthy and I’m up and down with it all. I’ll try again before the summer, my bad luck took place on Oct-November. Sometimes it takes a while to recover xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to AJJ123]

Thank you xx

[Midge8]

I’m so sorry to hear your news 😔 regroup and take your time xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Midge8]

Thank you xx

[magda22]

So sorry, its brutal. Lots of love to you x

[Ajplus1 in reply to magda22]

Thank you xx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this, this journey can be so cruel xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Hidden]

It can be. Thank you xx

[Clairebear793]

I'm so sorry to read this. I know how this feels, nothing can prepare yourself for the elation and devastation you feel within a matter of days, life can be so unfair. Please give yourself time to grieve, we had an enforced break before our next round of IUI and it was actually really helpful because we needed to have some form of grieving process to get ready for the next go. It's ok to not feel ok.

Look after each other and thinking of you both.

Xx

[Ajplus1 in reply to Clairebear793]

Thank you for your kinds words xx