End of the 2ww and it's a BFN, I am feeling devasted, I had such high hopes for this round,it was a top quality embryo and my lining was at optimum level,I'd been taking baby aspirin and steroids this round so really confused. I know it's not 100% guarantee but success rates at my clinic are really high for DE and everything seemed to go well up until this point.
BFN 💔: End of the 2ww and it's a BFN... - Fertility Network UK
Im so sorry i was hopeful for you too. Please take care of yourself. When something doesnt happen, God has bigger plans for you, this wasnt your time but your time WILL come. I pray 2019 is the year for you. I know how frustrating and upsetting it is to say the least but please do not give up belief hope and faith. It will happen x
Glad hubby is looking after you! You havent done anything wrong hun, you know that deep down Im sure and Im sure you're still grieving your lost little one too! Its a crappy time of year to get a BFN - I started bleeding on my 2ww on Xmas day a couple of years ago and its just that wee bit harder at this time of year. Try to let your hair down a little over the festive period. Hopefully better things to come for us in 2019!!xxx
Hey Cinderella,Xmas day now that really does suck!!
I've had lots of hugs today and think I'm cried out now and ready to take on the next round but have said to the clinic I want to try and find out what is going wrong,not sure how possible that is?? I'm wandering whether it's anything to do with my severe allergies and my immune system fighting against something that is a foreign object??
Ive just poured myself a vodka!!
2019 is going to be a better year for us both xxxx
Oh I'm so sorry Claire
I know exactly how you feel. We had two failed cycles with top notch A embryos
But this time we had BC embryos and it worked miraculously - sometimes there's no rhyme and reason but have faith it can and does work- and more often than we realise
It sounds like you're at a good clinic and you're on a good protocol - maybe 2019 is destined to be your year xxx
I’m so sorry that it hasn’t worked for you. I totally understand how extra crushing that is when everything had been looking so promising. We had two failed transfers with top quality embryos, after cycles with much poorer quality embryos it was impossible not to get our hopes up. I will be thinking about you at this difficult time. And have everything crossed that one of those little frozen ones will be a winner in 2019! Take care xxx
No they haven’t really advised anything other than suggesting that DE may increase our chances, which we haven’t tried yet but is likely to be our next step I think. I do wonder sometimes, especially when reading other women’s posts whether my clinic’s approach is a bit limited when it comes to offering further investigations. Especially because we’ve also had 2 MMC and so I can’t help wondering whether there’s something else adding to our problems that we don’t know about xx
It's difficult isn't it when you don't get any answers but as other ladies have said sometimes their is no reason, my clinic did add baby aspirin and steroids this time round because of my MMC but not sure other than that what can be done??
DE do seem to have higher success rates and there are really good clinics to chose from if that's the route you decide to go down xxx
I'm really sorry to hear this Claire. Bfns are the worst especially when the journey has already been quite challenging. Thinking of you xx