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Hi guys!

Second round of clomid, on cycle day 33 now and af is 2 days late! Took a test this morning and BFN šŸ˜­! Knew it was too good to be true! I know everyone says your luck isnā€™t out until af shows but really feeling like this month isnā€™t itšŸ˜­!

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AnnieAnnie

Hi there! Sorry about your negative test, it's torture when your body plays with your emotions. Hoping that you're still in with a chance xx

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply toAnnieAnnie

Thankyou so much! I think itā€™s just the thought of having another month of clomid too because itā€™s such a draining drug to have! Thanks again for your lovely words šŸ’—šŸ’—xx

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hannahding

I am sorry that this happened. I know how emotionally draining this all can be. However, maybe wait for a little longer and test again. The chances can be high later as well. Good luck to you. Don't lose hope. I am sure things will work out. Sending baby dust your way.

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply tohannahding

Thankyou! Trying to keep some hope, I have a few lovely friends whoā€™ve helped me out today. Iā€™m trying to stay positive just dread another month of migraines from clomid ā˜¹ļø!

Thankyou again šŸ’—šŸ’—xx

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Tugsgirl

Ahh sorry to hear this. Hopefully itā€™ll be third time lucky for you xx

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply toTugsgirl

Thankyou so much! Xxx

So sorry to read this. I hope it works very soon xx

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply to

Thanks so much! Me too, trying to stay positive xxx

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Gemz29

So sorry to hear this, Iā€™ve struggled with this clomid cycle.... so totally understand where your coming from. My clinic have been awful, so think its going to lead to this month being messed up. How many months have you been prescribed? Xx

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply toGemz29

Itā€™s so frustrating isnā€™t it! Our clinic is lovely but they just leave you to it really and I hate the not knowing of everything! Even with my blood tests you donā€™t get a phone call back, they are no news is good news but Iā€™d rather know something!!

Sorry to hear youā€™re having a hard time too, least we arenā€™t alone.

Iā€™ve got 6 months worth so waiting for my period to start now and this will be my third cycle! You? Xxx

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Gemz29ā€¢ in reply toMaterialbarbie

Yes Iā€™ve been given 6 months too, however the nurse didnt tell me when I went for my scan on Monday to try & conceive she said to wait until the follicule is around 20 in size & my uterus needed to thicken, therefore booked another scan for Friday. I went yesterday to be told the follicule is now 24 in size however is showing red fire around it (nurses wording) therefore now their not sure if Iā€™ve missed ovulation. I wasent advised to do any ov testing, as per my follicule tracking paper work it advises the nurse will advise you of your ā€œfertile period..... ā€œ at your scan. I did however do a ovulation test on Tuesday & Thursday at different times however both were negative.... totally confused & feel this month has been a wastešŸ˜”. Next month Iā€™m just going to do my own ovulation test from day 10-15. But When I have my day 21 blood test next week they will see If ive ovulated... if I havenā€™t there going to up my dose from 50 to 100.... my nurse also said the day 21 progesterone test is not reliable as she had just seen a lady that had a low result however found out sheā€™s pregnant.... xx

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply toGemz29

Iā€™m sure thereā€™s a supplement you can get which helps thicken your lining but I canā€™t remeber what itā€™s called! Iā€™m going to have a google and get some myself for next month!

I was debating getting ovulation tests and doing it that was as our clinic advises you not to but I feel so left alone that I have no clue! I just feel a bit different around the times I must have ovulated but I must just be missing ovulation!

The progesterone range is so wide too you can still look like youā€™ve ovulated but have a low reading! Itā€™s crazy, wish fertility struggles werenā€™t a thing šŸ˜­! Hoping you get some luck out of this! This might not be a wasted month for you, you never know! Keep me updated! Whenā€™s af due? xxxxx

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Binky1983ā€¢ in reply toMaterialbarbie

Sorry to hear you got a negative test.

I didnā€™t use ovulation tests as I was told that with pcos they are unreliable. What I did use and was successful with was an ovulation calculator babymed.com/tools/clomid-ov... and then started having sex a day or so before it suggested and went past a day or so to cover all bases. X

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply toBinky1983

Thanks so much! Thatā€™s what my clinic said to me about ovulation tests so thatā€™s why I havenā€™t bothered! The year before that Iā€™d taken them but they were positive and negative and random times so I knew they werenā€™t reliable! Just looking for anything to help me! Thankyou I shall give that a try! Xxxxx

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Gemz29ā€¢ in reply toMaterialbarbie

Ye let me know if you find it.... I feel like Iā€™m taking quite a few supplements as it is but 1 more wonā€™t hurtšŸ˜Š.

Af due 13th, I did have a lot of pain over last weekend (Iā€™d say ovulation pain) however that would have been day 10 & 11....

But my follicule were only 14 then....

Howā€™s your day 21 test been? Xx

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply toGemz29

Iā€™ll let you know! It was on a YouTube vid I watched so will rewatch it! Fingers crossed so much for you!!

And my clinic havenā€™t got intouch with me so must be good news?! This is what annoys mešŸ˜©!! Iā€™ve got day 35 bloods on Monday tho so will ring them and mention everything to them xxxxx

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everhopeful83

Aw sorry to read this, sending hugsšŸ’•xxx

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Materialbarbieā€¢ in reply toeverhopeful83

ThankyoušŸ’•šŸ’•! Trying to think positively xxx

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