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I am worried sick & succumbing to 2ww horror!!

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We had our FET about a week ago and Dr was happy with lining and embryo. Fast forward to 5dpt i noticed some cramping & brown spotting which i took for implantation bleeding if not old blood from the transfer probing. The brown spotting has been going on for 3 days now and i noticed its turning to light red. It`s still light but i am sooo scared. if this cycle fails, it`ll break me apart. Whats wrong with me? i have really tried to focus only on positive energy but i`m losing it. Test date is still 4 days away & i don`t know how i will get there. I have been praying day and night & i am scared as a child. Sorry to rant, i didn`t know who else to talk to.

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Tugsgirl

Hey 👋🏻 You’re not out yet and you’re doing really well! All of these things could be a good sign. You’ve had a bit of a wobble, which is understandable, now pick yourself up because remember, you are pupo! And you’ve got this 💪🏻 xx

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Stacia in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you Tugsgirl. I'll try to be strong and keep praying the odds are in my favour

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Saya85

Hi Stacia

So sorry for your stress but as tugs said it could go either way and there's still a lot to cling on to.

We've had quite a few stories recently where they've had even light pink and red spotting and still gone on to BFPs.

It's so stressful but each symptom can be good and bad- and we won't know until OTD.

Try and relax- maybe get some.bedrest as some.clinics would advise at this stage.

Hope the best for you xx

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Stacia in reply to Saya85

Thank you Saya85. It's really hard and I'm clouded with all sorts of emotions

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MissSaoPaulo

Yep, halfway through the 2ww the despair seems to set in. Like clockwork. It's totally normal to be anxious at this point and don't beat yourself up about not feeling positive - that's just putting more pressure on yourself and we already have more than enough!!

It's not over till it's over so don't give up yet. The symptoms you describe could be positive or negative so hang on in there another couple of days, you're not out yet xxx

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Stacia in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Thank you hun. It does feel better getting some reassurance from someone😘

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