Putting off frozen transfer.

[KirstyC90]

Hi everyone,

Feeling a bit crappy today. So I’ve been signed off work for two weeks as have been having horrendous abdominal pains in and out of hospital with no answers which is stressing me out. They found a small cyst on my right ovary which is apparently under developed so I have no idea what has happened there- I’m wondering if the first fresh cycle kick started the ovary into doing something rather than the usual nothing.

Because of this undiagnosed pain and the cyst I have decided to put off the transfer that was meant to happen in January. I wasn’t convinced anyway as the clinic had not got back to me about any treatment after telling them my period started in November there was no contact so what they were planning to do I don’t know anyway.

I just had a dream last night I met up with an old friend and told him everything that’s been going on and I realised that all of this is really getting on top of me. My Dad has colitis and I’m worried it’s something like Crohn’s as I have had symptoms for years. In the dream I sat on an unsteady chair and was suddenly at the edge of deep water about to fall in- says it all right?!

Anyway, my colleagues are coming to visit me at home today which I’m nervous about and I hate being off work I’ve only been there a year but on the other hand this has been one of the hardest years of my life so far. Emotionally and physically.

😔

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Kirsty. Weird dreams often mean the opposite. Let's hope your tummy soon settles down so you can have your FET. Perhaps you have a bit of colitis too. I'm sure your colleagues will cheer you up. Enjoy their company. Diane

[Tugsgirl]

Hey Kirsty. I’m sure the weird dreams are probably a sign of things weighing on your mind, not a reflection of anything that’s about to happen.

I hope the issue you’re having is soon cleared up for you and you can enjoy your Christmas and new year xx

[MissSaoPaulo]

Best of luck with it all hon. You're being very sensible to put it off if you're not feeling 100% - that's the great thing about FET. Hope you get some answers soon about the abdominal pain, I know it must be very worrying but try not to jump to the worst conclusions xxx