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Am just failed ☹️

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Just back home as I got my 1st ivf negetive & my doctor told me to stop all medicine to start my usual periods... My BhCG level comes too low & am bit heart 💔. Now at my dad's house to spend some time with him as I've lost my mom 2 yrs back & at present my hubby is out of country for his biz trip.... 😢😢

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Hi Nafisa,I'm sorry to hear that. I know the feeling of being told it's negative,it's so heartbreaking. I was the same in September but I didn't give up,got my BFP. Give urself time n try again. The doc told me first ivf is like a trail run and it doesn't work a lot of time. It's not ur fault. Next time it's definitely going to be positive. Look after urself. (Hugs)

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Nafisa_ in reply toAlisha79

Oh dear!! Thanks for your cordial concern. Am broken... Am feeling all is my faults but I prayed lot to God... Thinking for next term in Feb 19 by frozen embroy...

Lots of love

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Nafisa_ in reply toAlisha79

Oh dear!! Thanks for your cordial concern. Am broken... Am feeling all is my faults but I prayed lot to God... Thinking for next term in Feb 19 by frozen embroy...

Lots of love

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to read this. Take good care of yourself xx

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Nafisa_ in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks a lot dear... Am broken... But in Feb 19 will try for next.... With love

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Tugsgirl in reply toNafisa_

Good luck. 2019 may be your year xx

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Nafisa_ in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks a lot... Love & hugs for your support

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Anya80

Hi, I’m so sorry😥lots of cuddles to your end😘 it’s not easy to deal with such news, be strong x

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Nafisa_ in reply toAnya80

Dear Anya80

Am broken but from tomorrow I'll continue my office... I need to go far from this... Too painful.. Trying to hold myself.

Lots of love & hugs

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Anya80 in reply toNafisa_

Hey Nafisa, yes it’s good for you to get distracted, take your time for grief and then move on I’m sure you will get your dream baby at some point as many of us here. Sometimes first round it’s a trial one, your doctors might bring up some solutions at next and this will bring positive outcome-I was this case myself! Don’t give up but for now look after yourself, lots of love to you 😘

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Nafisa_ in reply toAnya80

Dear Anya80

Lots of love to you as am getting strong support & hope from you... I wish my baby will be soon with me... A big hug & ❤️

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JennyRLR

Sending hugs x

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Nafisa_ in reply toJennyRLR

Thanks a lot Dear for your support & care.. With love

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Masha111

Hi Nafisa

Im very sorry to hear your news. Hope you have some family support or some close friends you can talk to. You prayed alot to God - he always gives....just at his time cos he knows the future and has an even better plan for you. Please dont give up hope faith or belief. It WILL happen (God willing)

Give yourself some time and hopefully 2019 will be your year. xx

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Nafisa_ in reply toMasha111

Am getting big hope by your message. Thanks a lot Masha111.... Big hugs

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HollieW

I'm so sorry to hear this. My first transfer failed too and it's heart breaking but you will get through it. Take care of yourself xx

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Nafisa_ in reply toHollieW

Dear... Am really broken & nothing to say.. I'll try in Feb 19 with my frozen embroy... Hoping for the best..

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HollieW in reply toNafisa_

Of course you will try again. We all feel broken when it fails. I wish you all the best on your journey it is so very tough at times but we are all warriors xx

So sorry to hear it’s not been successful for you. Our first icsi failed last month and were hoping for a frozen embryo transfer early 2019.

It’s so disheartening but have faith that it will happen for you. I gave myself a few days to just feel super miserable and we are totally allowed that.

Positive thoughts for the new year. Have you had some time to think what you’ll do next? X

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Dear MISESP

I'll go for next in Feb 19 as I've 2 good quality frozen embroys & I think it's better to use one after another....

Thanks a lot for your kind words.. With love

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