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Hi everyone.

I haven’t had the easiest of pregnancies- lots of spotting throughout & have felt on tender hooks. Ive been signed off work by the GP & told to bed rest. Even tho it was never heavy bleeding & never had abdominal pain it was unsettling seeing it and made it impossible to feel excited over this wanted pregnancy.

But today my fear was put to rest. The baby was measuring at 12 weeks 4 days- a day ahead of my dates. We got some lovely pictures & are so grateful we got our rainbow baby after so long!

Infertility is so difficult & feels at times like you will never get a baby. It’s the toughest challenge I’ve faced. This site kept me reasonably sane 😂to know I wasn’t alone & felt supported here. Know you are strong & can do this. It’s a battle but can be won 💪🏻 It’s brought hubby & I closer & I believe what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

I will enjoy reading you your updates on your journeys my fellow warriors 💪🏻Wishing each & every one of you all little miracles & hope you have a more plain sailing pregnancy than mine has been! ❤️❤️❤️ xoxo 😘

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Doglover5

Massive congratulations! Amazing news for you both. Hope you can relax more now. It’s nice to hear a positive outcome with another endo sufferer xxx

in reply toDoglover5

Thank you.

It’s definitely not easing managing endo with TTC.

I found the anti inflammatory diet really eased my symptoms me once I had all the endo removed.

All the best with your cycle hope it’s good news 🤞🏻✨😘 xoxo

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Tugsgirl

Good news 👍🏻👍🏻 xx

in reply toTugsgirl

Thank you & all the best with your cycle xoxo

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afrank

Really happy for you Jess. I have been praying and rooting for you and this baby. I am a continent away in the US and it's good to know that there are other people out there passing through the same. Since you became pregnant, whenever I see you posts, I always have my heart in my mouth praying that it's not bad news.

I am glad to know that that worry has finally been put to rest for you and for me too😁

in reply toafrank

Thank you for such a lovely reply. Hope all is well with you xoxo

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CatDV

Oh Jess!

So pleased for you my lovely.

Congratulations ❤️❤️

in reply toCatDV

Thank you so much. How are things with you? xoxo

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CatDV in reply to

Im having a transfer tomorrow morning :)

Pray for me xxxx

in reply toCatDV

I will. 🙏🏻 Everything thing crossed for you. You really deserve this. Hope it’s the best Christmas present you could hope for. 😍 xoxo

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CatDV in reply to

Oh, wouldn’t that be the best present ever? :)

All the best for the rest of your pregnancy lovely Jess

in reply toCatDV

😃🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻✨✨✨❤️❤️❤️ xoxo

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Masha111 in reply toCatDV

Good luck CatDV with your transfer tomorrow. Hope your embie sticks and you get your BFP

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CatDV in reply toMasha111

Aww, thanks Masha! Really hope so xx

So pleased to see your scan went well & your fears have eased now. Wishing you all the best for the rest of your pregnancy 😘 x

in reply to

Thank you. All the best with your pregnancy too xoxo

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Masha111

Hi Jess

Thats brilliant news 🤗 Was thinking of you today. Im so happy for you💖🤰🏻👍. You both deserve this news and now hopefully you can cherish this memory and help you think more positively going forwards.

I was given 2 days ahead of what i thought i was. So it wasnt too out.

Praying everyone out there that is pregnant to have a safe delivery and for those that are TTC for their miracles to happen so they too can experience what we are experiencing.

Take each day as it comes but with a smile and some positivity. x

in reply toMasha111

Thank you. The worrying stops now 🙂I hope everyone here gets their miracles. All the best with your pregnancy too xoxo 😘

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Core

Such lovely news congratulations xx

in reply toCore

Thank you. All the best with your 2WW, hope it’s good news for you 😘 xoxo

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Core in reply to

Thank you xx

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MrsAdzee

Glad to hear all is well - been thinking of you x

in reply toMrsAdzee

Thank you. I hope your miscarriage tests can give you some answers or reassurance to proceed with another cycle. xoxo 😘

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MrsAdzee in reply to

Thank you Jess xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

Always nice to see some good news :) thanks for sharing!!

in reply toMissSaoPaulo

Thank you. All the best with your 2WW hope it’s happy news xoxo 😘

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runsoncuddles

I'm so happy for you, I hope you can now just enjoy the rest of your pregnancy cause you deserve it. Congratulations xx

in reply torunsoncuddles

Thank you so much. I hope all is going well with you xoxo 😘

Oh thats brilliant news Jess. So glad to read this. Onto the next phase. Well done on getting to 12 weeks xx

in reply to

Thank you & for your support. All the best with your pregnancy & next scan. 😘 xoxo

in reply to

Thank you. 8wk scan on Saturday x

in reply to

Good luck for Saturday, hope it gives you some more reassurance.❤️xoxo 😘

in reply to

It's giving me more heeby jeebies at the moment. You know what it's like.... and breathe xxx

in reply to

Oh yes I do! Scans are so nerve racking but so amazing to see the baby 😍 I said to the sonographer I can breath now 😂 let us know how it goes, sure it will be fine, but know it’s impossible not to worry! xoxo

in reply to

Good luck xx

in reply to

Thank you x

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ChristineB05

That's wonderful news lovely, wishing you all the best with the rest of your pregnancy 😘

in reply toChristineB05

Thank you very much. I hope all is okay with you xoxo 😘

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jupiter1234

Been waiting for this update all day! Fab news! Hopefully you can relax a little now and enjoy your pregnancy easier said then done I know! X

in reply tojupiter1234

Thank you. So relieved to get to this point know all is fine. And breath!!!😘 xoxo

Fantastic news xx

in reply to

Thank you ❤️ hope you are okay? xoxo 😘

in reply to

Can't belive your 12 weeks it's flown but suspect it's not flown for you.

Yeah all good here, getting ready for Santa coming , will be glad when it's over so can get my focus back lol xx

Amazing news congrats 😘🙏💖 xx

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ashalez

Amazing news congs😗really happy for both of you😘😘

in reply toashalez

Thank you so much xoxo 😘

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Sweets1

You must have been so excited for your scan! Glad it went well xxx

in reply toSweets1

Thank you.

I was terrified, but happy my fears were unfounded.

Hope all is going well with you? xoxo 😘

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Sweets1 in reply to

I bet, but I’m sure it’s so hard not to worry, but good to know things are progressing well! Yes good thanks, sperm donor ordered and waiting for an appointment in January now! Thanks xxx

in reply toSweets1

The worrying never ends 🤣 That is great news happy for you are making progress . A new year & fresh start 🙂 Here’s to 2019 being your year 😊✨❤️ xoxo

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Sweets1 in reply to

Fingers crossed yes, xxx

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Rowly88

So pleased to hear your good news xxx congratulations again Jess xxx

in reply toRowly88

Thank you so much. Hope you managed to sort the carbon test out? xoxo 😘

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Rowly88 in reply to

Thank you for asking x

You won't believe it, I finally managed to get some help but from another hospital who booked me in for this Friday to have the test done after struggling so much to find somewhere and no help from my hospital.

Then later that day my hospital called and said, following the documents I provided and call from my doctor stating I'm not a smoker they are willing to accept this so I don't have to have the test anymore. Couldn't believe it!!!

I have an appointment for 12.12, all going good injections start on 14.12 and then go into next year Jan.

I can't wait to get going xxxxx 😁😁😁

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AnnieAnnie

Congratulations! I'm so pleased all is progressing well for you still xx

in reply toAnnieAnnie

Thank you what a journey it is but worth it 🙂 I hope you are okay? xoxo 😘

Great news Jess! Hope it gets smoother from now on xx

in reply to

Thank you, me too!!! xoxo 😘

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ALLY81

So happy little one is ok was thinking of you 😊 xxxx

in reply toALLY81

Thank you I appreciate that. 🙂All the best with your pregnancy xoxo

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Steadman80

Awww congrats. This is great news. So happy for you. You always take time to reply to others when you have been going through this journey yourself. Try and enjoy it now if you can and keep us updated xx

in reply toSteadman80

Thank you for such a lovely reply. If it wasn’t for this site I don’t know if I would’ve had the strength to continue. How are things with you, hope you are okay? xoxo 😘

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Jenjen84

Ahhh that’s wonderful news! Here’s to a happy and healthy rest of your pregnancy ❤️ Xxx

in reply toJenjen84

Thank you 🙂 All the best with the rest of your 2WW, hope it’s good news 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻✨✨❤️ xoxo

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kirstyblue

I’m so happy for you! When’s your due date? X

in reply tokirstyblue

Thank you & congrats to you. My due is now 1st June ( it went forward by 2 days) When is your scan? It’s amazing seeing them on screen 😍 xoxo

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kirstyblue in reply to

Oh amazing. Have you properly announced your pregnancy now? First scan is on 11th December so il be around 7 weeks I think x

in reply tokirstyblue

Thank you.

No we haven’t, there are some people we need to tell before any announcement on Facebook.

All the best for 11th December, keep us posted 💗 it’s better to scan at 7 weeks as you should see a heartbeat then 6 is too early 💗 xozo

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Kyell2

Great news Jess. Another hurdle down 😊 x

in reply toKyell2

Thank you massively relieved! Really sorry to hear your donor let you down & hope you don’t have too long to wait till you find another donor. ❤️❤️❤️xoxo

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Dunla

So happy to hear this Jess. Hoping you will enjoy continued health and happiness for the rest of your pregnancy xx

in reply toDunla

Thank you so much. Any updates from your clinic? xoxo 😘

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Dunla in reply to

No 😕 We honestly feel like we might be done with it all xx

in reply toDunla

Really sorry to hear that. It seems very unprofessional of the clinic to leave you dangling. Maybe sometime away from it all will do you some good. Focus on you. You can pick it up again at anytime.I had forced breaks with my surgeries & it really was nice to have a break. It can get too much at times. xoxo

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Autumnmoon

That's great Jess hope you will be able to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy x

in reply toAutumnmoon

Thank you, we can now look forward to having our baby 😍 xoxo

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Cinderella5

Glad to see your update Jess!! Wishing you all the best for the rest of your pregnancy!xx

in reply toCinderella5

Thank you so much. All the best with your next transfer, everything crossed for you that this is your time 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 xoxo

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Lynnr54

Fantastic! Hope the rest of your pregnancy is more smooth sailing!

in reply toLynnr54

Thank you, me too!!! xoxo 😘

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kumkums

Congratulations on the good news.

in reply tokumkums

Thank you xoxo

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Yammie1973

Oh Jess

It is such a lovely post thank you. Hope that the rest of the pregnancy is plain sailing from now on in. Lots of love and hugs to all of you.

in reply toYammie1973

Thank you so much. I hope you get this anaemia sorted & the thyroid & fibroid. It’s great it’s been unearthed. Having anaemia is horrendous, you will feel heaps better after taking ferrous sulphate 😘 Good luck for your appointment & let us know how it goes, everything crossed for you xoxo

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Yammie1973 in reply to

Thanks Jess. Fibroid consultant said that in his opinion, we should just leave the fibroids alone as they are not impacting the uterine cavity in any way, close but not enough o cause long term problems with pregnancy or miscarriage. All I was told to take was vit D3 for the iron deficiency anaemia.

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Olivia1980xxx

Congratulations Hun . Just relax and enjoy your pregnancy 🤰🏻 and I wish u healthy one Hun 😘xoxo 👶

in reply toOlivia1980xxx

Thank you so much. All the best to you. Lovely to see familiar faces xoxo 😘

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Materialbarbie

Ahh Congratulations! (Just having a little stalk after you helped me so much on my post).

So please for you, take it easy and enjoy every minute of your pregnancy💕✨✨✨xx

in reply toMaterialbarbie

Thank you. And hope it’ll soon be you sharing happy news 😘 xoxo

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💕💕💕

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MrsElbow

So pleased to read this (im an avid reader of posts... i just don't often say too much!).... but reading this really just made me smile!

I'm a week away from my 7week scan.... not enjoying it at all.... two bouts of very very light spotting... but all symptons (nausea/ fatigue etc) all keep happening... now doing another HPT every other day... just to check.. all seems ok.... but it's sooooooo hard (after previous early miscarriage after round 1)..... so have really been struggling.

But your news has given me hope! So massive congrats and thankyou! Xxxx

in reply toMrsElbow

Thank you.

The spotting robbed me of enjoying the my first trimester. ☹️

I am so sorry for your loss too. I had a chemical pregnancy last year & I think that made us worth more with this pregnancy. ☹️ I did lots of pregnancy tests 🤣

You can spot & be okay, it’s common but awful when you see it ☹️It’s only if it’s you have severe abdominal pain with heavy bleeding that you should be concerned. The first question I was asked by the midwife was did I have pain & when I said no she said I’d be okay!

I really hope your 7 weeks scan can give you the reassurance you need. All the best with your pregnancy xoxo

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MrsElbow

You've hit the nail on the head... I've been robbed of the joy of it at the moment. (I feel awful saying it.... with the years over been waiting and wanting this you happen)....its just such an emotional rollercoaster.

Anyway. So pleased you've made it to 12 weeks! Wishing you all the best for your continuing pregnancy! Xxx

in reply toMrsElbow

Thank you.

Don’t be like me & spend the whole timester worrying. I worried over something that never mounted to anything & I could’ve enjoyed being pregnant. Hopefully the 7 week scan can lay these fears at bay. xoxo

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pm27

Lovely news. Hopefully you can relax a little now and enjoy the rest if your pregnancy.

in reply topm27

Thank you very much xoxo 😘

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londonrc

Fantastic news Jess! I’m totally delighted for you. I really hope you can now try to relax and watch your belly grow! All the best to you and your little growing bean! X

in reply tolondonrc

Thank you so much. All the best with FET next month hope you can end this year on a high 🤞🏻✨🌈🤰🏼 xoxo

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londonrc in reply to

Thanks Jess- it will really be end of year- I’ll be able to do a urine test on 30th for result - or blood test on 28th- not sure I’ll want to make my way into town for test during the holiday time and then wait for results- might just wait for urine test myself. What did you do each time?

in reply tolondonrc

I did a urine test. It wasn’t IVF I had surgeries to treat endometriosis & then did a round of clomid. Pregnancy tests can be done as early as day of missed period. Personally I would find it difficult to wait in for blood test results, in too inpatient 🤣 I used clearblue conception pregnancy test day after the missed period with first urine & was able to pick up pregnancy both times ( one was a chemical pregnancy) Up to you must do what feels right for you. I hope it’s BFP xoxo

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londonrc in reply to

Thanks Jess, will get some clear blue and cross my fingers! All the best I hope you have a wonderful happy Christmas. Xx

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Smang

Wonderful news! The scans always helped me with reassurance. I’m so happy for you, congratulations once again! Wishing you a healthy pregnancy xx

in reply toSmang

Thank you. I think reassurance after what we’ve been through is needed xoxo

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Wishfully

Fantastic news, well done Jess 😊x

in reply toWishfully

Thank you so much xoxo 😘

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Em2405

Congratulations Jess, I love reading your updates. They give me such hope. Wishing you all the best through your pregnancy ❤️ xxx

in reply toEm2405

Thank you I’m touched. I put it up as I found success stories gave me strength to keep going. Hope is so important & at the end of our journey we had run out of hope of it ever happening. Your time will come & it will be worth it ❤️❤️❤️xoxo

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Em2405 in reply to

Thanks, I really hope my time comes but still feels so far away. Reading about your difficulties gives me hope. You are a tower of strength. Keep us updated! Well done for being so strong and helping us all keep the faith! Xx

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Kelz84

Congratulations to you both. Xx

in reply toKelz84

Thank you xoxo

I'm so happy for you Jess, you can finally start to enjoy the reality that you are pregnant. Make sure you do get plenty of rest. Take care xx

in reply to

Thank you. Wishing you the best too xoxo 😘

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clarecare80

Big hug to you Jess, it is so true what you say about the journey. Currently at 8 weeks after so much pain and countless tears for my previous losses. I guess the scars will never heal but will hopefully be replaced by joy some day. I truly wish you all the best xx

in reply toclarecare80

Thank you. And congratulations. Sorry about your previous losses. I had a loss last year & it makes you worry more about the pregnancy.😢 Scans are scary but so hugely reassuring. Wishing you the best with your pregnancy 🤰🏼 I’m sure this is your time 😍🌈✨ xoxo

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romaluna2015

💝💝💝

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Drives

Fantastic news 😁

in reply toDrives

Thank you. All the best to you xoxo 😘

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Esme78

Congratulations to you - so very much deserved! I am just over 11 weeks and have my first appointment with a community midwife next week - my nausea is bad and so is the tiredness so have not enjoyed the first trimester much and getting quite worried about the screening tests. We will continue to look after ourselves as much as we can xx

in reply toEsme78

Thank you. And congratulations to you. Your miscarriage risk decrease dramatically after 8 weeks so I’m sure you are out of the woods 😘 The scan will give you the reassurance that we will need, especially after this journey. Keep us updated zoxo

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Emmyeve

This is amazing!!!! Congratulations xx

in reply toEmmyeve

Thank you very much. All the best to you xoxo 😘

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