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I think I’m out again😢

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It’s day10 after 5day transfer and have started to spot and now bleed lightly so think the horrid AF has started😩. Oh why this so hard and it so unfair😢

Positive hope stories are needed please, so deverstated😔

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Kari55

Oh no, let’s hope it’s not AF. Sending lots of hugs xx

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to Kari55

Thank you Hun. How u doing? X

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Kari55 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

I’m doing ok. Monday was awful when I got BFN but I had a counselling session on the same day and it was really helpful. I’ve decided that this won’t make me feel down as life is too short. Of course it’s a difficult, vulnerable time so I’m looking after my mind as a priority. I’m keeping everything crossed for you. When is your otd? Xx

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to Kari55

Bless u yeah so sorry to hear that for u. It is so tough but such a great way of looking at it indeed gotta keep that hope as much as can a. Glad ur counselling was helpful. Me and my hubby been chatting which been helpful for me and def not giving up either way.

My otd is next tues but yeah we will see. I was due tomorrow so. Keep on going a all can do xx thank u for ur lovely replies xx

Don't give up yet. It ain't over until the fat lady sings (or the bleed is heavy enough to fill a pad in an hour). Lots of people on here have had bleeds and gone on to have successful pregnancies. Wishing you all the best xxx

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Thank u. I hope that is the case but just feels like what happens when my af starts spots then light then all happens 😔 guess will see. Thank u for u hope though it helps xx

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Me too. We can but send positive vibes through these pages. Xx

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Dunla

Oh my heart goes out to you. It’s just so incredibly hard. Don’t know what else to say except I’ll be thinking of you. Lots of love xx

Hi,I second what Camillage has said, don't give up yet there is still hope! Sending lots of positivity your way xx

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Ahh thanks for ur hope but unfortunately I was right and AF came with a vengeance this morning. Very heavy and painful so def out😢 oh 😔

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I’m so sorry to hear that 😢 xoxo

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I am really sorry, sending you lots of hugs xx

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Eeek in reply to Dreamingofbaby

It's all just so cruel. Xx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Im so sorry, huge hugs! Its so damn unfair!!xx

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Kari55 in reply to Dreamingofbaby

So sorry hun, be kind to yourself and keep strong. Sending hugs xxx

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SMoon84

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you xxx

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vic77

Oh hunny..I am so so sorry to read this. ..huge hugs xxxx

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Tugsgirl

Hey 👋🏻Any updates this morning? I was hoping for a miracle for you... I’m so sorry if that wasn’t the case.. xx

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everhopeful83

So sorry to hear that 😞❤️xx

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Dreamingofbaby

Thank you all for ur kind thoughts. Am feeling exhausted as the pain of starting kept me up most of night which feels even more cruel too. Now trying to work but is a slow progress today. Crying lots but hey.

Thank u all so pleased u here xx

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Tugsgirl in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Sorry to hear about this 😢 Thinking of you xx

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Really sorry to read this. Sending big hugs x

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