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Sorry for constantly posting but I need to speak this out and I am alone at home.

I think AF is coming today :-( I just started spotting and since yesterday have some mild cramps. It is 3/4 days too early. I had so much hope in this cycle, my progesterone levels were so high and everything was perfectly timed.

I am super dissappointed, but somehow I am not crying. I think I have wasted all my tears in the last 2 years and now I have just accepted my sitiation. Thid at least means that I can start a new cycle immediately!

Hope that all other 2wwers are more lucky!

xxx

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Jenjen84

Sending you a big hug... I’ve just started mine (2dp5dt) and am not feeling too confident due to a difficult transfer and bowel issues causing me pain.. It’s a tough ride.. Hopefully your symptoms aren’t what you think.. Take care xxxx

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sarahharas in reply toJenjen84

THank you so much! It just feels exactly like my period, it is just so incredibly early I never had that :(

Dont give up yours yet, if it would have been impossible, they would not have done the transfer. I cross my fingers for you! xx

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Jenjen84 in reply tosarahharas

Thank you! Fingers crossed for us both! Xx

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staceymac83

I had the exact same symptoms during my 2ww and got BFP. The symptoms between pregnancy and AF are so similar, be positive ❤️

P.s noticed your also from Edinburgh, feel free to drop me a message anytime xx

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Dunla

Oh I’m very sorry. I know how utterly devastating that feeling is. Sending you a tight hug and thinking of you xx

Definitely don’t count yourself as out yet! I had cramping 3 days before my period was due & was sure my period was going to come- it turned out to be implantation cramps. I’m now nearly 12 weeks. Early pregnancy symptoms and pms are the same and difficult to tell apart. Well I couldn’t anyway!

Good luck xoxo

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Tugsgirl

Af type cramping was a good sign for me on my bfp rounds. On my bfns I didn’t get any period type feelings. You’re not out yet xx

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Strawberrychaos

Don’t give up yet, I had red blood spotting and period pain cramping but mine was implantation. I had my bfp even though I thought it was all over. I now have my 4 month old miracle so it still could be possible xx

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sarahharas

Thank you so much all of you, you are all so suportive! And congratulations to all the happy ones that got a BFP :)

I try to still have hope (although this is quiet difficult), but AF did not break trough yet, no more blood.

This all seems so unreal, sometimes I am waiting to wake up from a very bad dream...

xxx

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Ap98

I didn’t have any signs at all when I had BFN, but had lots of crampings for my BFP... so wait and see hun!!!!!

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Cinderella5

Dont give up, hopefully its just implantation spotting! Good luck!xx

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Ajplus1

Hang in there. Thinking of you and hoping you get some good news xx

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sarahharas

THank you all, apparently my spotting has stopped! I am much more hopeful now that I still have a chance. THe cramps are still there, like yesterday getting worse towards the evening.

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MissSaoPaulo

I had my transfer last Fri and feeling totally period-y and crampy yesterday and today. On the one hand I'm thinking it's a good sign as it's only day 23 of the cycle and I've never had a period that early, and I never usually get cramps before bleeding (sorry girls, TMI I know). On the other, my poor little reproductive system has been through so much lately and is getting so many hormones pumped into it right now who even knows what normal is any more?!?!?!

So let's just hang on in there, be cautiously optimistic and look after ourselves as well as we can for the rest of these two weeks from hell!!!

I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you xxx

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kirstyblue

I know how it’s so easy to think that but I’ve had spotting on and off since 4dp5dt..I kept on thinking it was my period but it never arrived..test day tomorrow! Please don’t think it is over yet. It could just be spotting xx

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Shirazlover2013

Got my fingers crossed for you that it’s just a scare and not AF!! Good luck xx

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sarahharas

No its not :-( the bleeding started again this morning much stronger, so AF arrived. But thank you all for your nice support :-)

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I’m so sorry to hear that ☹️ xoxo

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Oh no, I am so so sorry to read this. Xx

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