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The 2ww was hellish, then the wait for the viability scan, then the wait for the 8 week scan whee we found out there was no longer a heartbeat and now the wait for the miscarriage to happen... I had originally wanted to wait for it to come naturally as I feel like my body has been messed with enough over the past year, but now I can’t bear to wait and just want to get it over with. I’ve got another appointment with EPAU tomorrow morning for medical management at home.

The whole thing sucks ☹️

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Lowamh

I’m sorry 😢

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Tugsgirl

I hope it isn’t too traumatic for you once you start. Make sure Hubby looks after you well. Wishing you a speedy recovery xx

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WaywardGirl in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks - I have a stack of painkillers and chocolate by my bed. Just done the medication and waiting for things to kick off now... My partner is being amazing xx

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Tugsgirl in reply toWaywardGirl

That’s good. Have you got a hot water bottle just in case? xx

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WaywardGirl in reply toTugsgirl

Yep, got my big heat pad. Well underway now so hopefully it’ll be over soon...

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Tugsgirl in reply toWaywardGirl

🤞🏻🤞🏻💪🏻 xx

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genten

Im so so sorry. Just horrible for you and your husband.

Xx

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Bern2015

It’s all so difficult isn’t it? I’m so sorry. Xxx

I’m so sorry mc are awful take care of yourself big hugs xxx

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TRYING2016

I agree it’s horrible the waiting is absolutely horrible, i spent 3 days at the epau as wanted medical management but in simple words they refused and told me to come back 7 days to have a rescan as the sac was measuring 18mm and not 25mm how they would like!!! What the hell i had to hold myself to not have a breakdown. Its been 10 days for me and still no bleeding but its giving me time to grieve and process things. I hope you are ok, look after yourself big hug xxxx

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Xx

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WaywardGirl in reply toTRYING2016

Oh, you poor thing. Hope it happens soon for you. xx

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WaywardGirl in reply toTRYING2016

I think because mine had already started to break down they were happy there isn’t anything too big there. I’d also already had bloods done (ironically by the midwife on Tuesday...) so that saved them some time checking I’m not anaemic.

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TRYING2016 in reply toWaywardGirl

I hope you are feeling ok xxx

I'm so sorry there is yet more waiting around for you. A truly horrible situation. Thinking of you xx

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