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Lots more tests and waiting

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Hi lovely ladies. Hope you are all ok.

So I had my 1st appointment with specialist yesterday where we were Supposed to find out our results from the sample they took from out last miscarriage. Went and no results were back 😢. They ordered more bloods to cover everything though the getting blood was traumatic as no blood was coming out of me that day. Took two nurses and a doc to get blood out of me which had to be syringed out my hand in the end 😐. Not fun but all done now.

So want to just start the next round but know it best to wait for the results and go from there. Be another 8-9 weeks before we know apparently 😕.

Anyways sorry am just having a rant and finding it hard esp as my colleague is super pregnant now and be going off on maternity soon. She understandably talks about everything a lot and oh it hard to hear esp when if things had not gone the way they had I would’ve been 20 weeks I think by now and planning my maternity too 😢 instead am waiting for tests and my period to start again. Life sucks at times a.

Wishing u all well xx

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HollieW profile image
HollieW

Sorry to hear you have been having a rough time. Infertility sucks and seeing others around you pregnant is really hard to manage. I hope you get the results from your tests soon and you can start your next round. Wishing you lots of luck 🤞 xx

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to HollieW

Thank u Hun yeah I hope so too. Hope u ok thanks xx

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Lots8788

So sorry hun x big hugs to you and hope the 8-9 weeks go by as quick as poss x

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to Lots8788

Thank you. Hope so too xx

Oh no, another 8 or 9 weeks. I hope you get some answers. Sending you big hugs x

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to

I hope I do too. Guess not that long in grand scheme I’ll get there. Thank you xx

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hannahding

So sorry to read about your loss. I can understand how devastating it is. However, stay strong and positve. I hope things get better for you soon. Just wait for the reports and start again. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to hannahding

Thank you. I hope things getter better too. Think am extra sensitive at the mo with my period just about to start. Does not help 🙄

Yep hope to get somewhere at some point. Xx

I'm so sorry that you have got to wait that long,its really difficult being in limbo but hopefully it will be able to provide some answers for you xx

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to

It is indeed but yes answers soon be good. Thank u Hun xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that you are stuck waiting for your results. It's really hard sitting in limbo land not being able to do anything when you just want to get on but at least you know once you have your tests back you can move forward having ruled out any potential problems. Its crap when you know how far along you should be by now...it often crosses my mind too!😔 Chin up lovely, I've found my wait in between hard but now that we have started again its not so bad....you'll get there and hopefully get some answers too!xx

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Dreamingofbaby in reply to Cinderella5

Thank u Hun. Know u know only too well for sure. Not easy but yes having the results and hopefully ruling out the issues we hope will def help. Hope u ok. Big hugs xx

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