My first post but not sure where to turn.
I’m in my mid 30s and keen to start a family with my oh. We’ve just been using condoms but in May decided to forgo them altogether and see what happened!!
My last period was in June, 10 weeks ago now. But I’ve had 4 hpt and all bfn. (That’s the lingo right??) though in the last 2 months I’ve experienced spotting when my period should have been due - Brown discharge only on wiping for a few days and never had that before, tender breasts and seemingly constantly erect nippples, occasionally nauseous feelings, occasionally super light cramping (nothing like my periods), and constant constipation.
I went to the docs 2-3 weeks after first missed period and 1 neg hpt, he said with spotting it wasn’t a good sign and neg test, probably not good news.
But now two missed periods... it’s really unusual for me. Late yes, but totally awol.. no!
I was diagnosed with PCOS in my late teens and in the last few months have seen my weight creep up depressingly. I can only think nature is playing a cruel joke, just as we were starting to try.
But a small part of me is so aware of these changes to my body... am I just making myself have pseudo symptoms??
I’ve got another docs appt in a couple of weeks (nightmare to get an appointment) but in the meantime I’m starting to get really quite down about it all. I don’t think i can face any more negative results and absent period.
Has anyone else experienced similar? Any advice? I’ve trawled through so many posts and can’t seem to make any more sense of my circumstances.
Your advice or help would really help me through.