Hi all
Back in June we went for our 12 week scan to find out there was no heartbeat and baby died at around 8 weeks which devasted us. I still feel a bit down about it. We were lucky enough to get 3 embryos frozen and are hopefully starting treatment next month and iam excited about it. But it's still there in the back of my mind
Omgoodness! I'm so so sorry I can't imagine what in the earth that's like and how you're feeling! I know if it happened to me I'd feel scared and frightened it'd happen again. That's brilliant news you're starting again and being strong it seems! Have you been to see anyone about it??xx
Hi kellyoke1. I'm not at all surprised that you are still feeling down. You lost your little one that was to give you so much to look forward to. I hope you had, and still have plenty of support around you at the time and now. Once you feel strong enough you will go for your FET and replace one or two embryos back inside you where they belong. Obviously, I wish you well with this when it happens and of course for success. Thinking of you. Diane
I can totally relate to how you feel, we had a MMC at 10wks back in April and now I’m going through a chemical/early miscarriage!! 💔 It’s so tough and some days it’s a real struggle and I still feel so down - but one day at a time, one foot in front of the other and we will find the strength to keep going!!
Wishing you the very best of luck for your upcoming frozen cycle!! xxx
So sorry to hear this, its no wonder you're still upset about it, it's something that will be with you now. I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks about a year and a half ago and it was horrible, it something I've have to tell medical professionals about on a regular basis through my fertility treatment and is something that I will hold close to my heart forever. It's heartbreaking and physically traumatic so don't rush yourself to feel 'okay' about it, take some time xxx
Hiya, similar thing happened to me 2 years ago baby had no heartbeat and stopped growing at 8 weeks, and it's still on my mind and gets me down, were doing a FET hopefully in 2 weeks and I'm so so nervous too, I'm just going to try to take each stage as it comes, hopefully positive pregnancy test then first scan and I'll probably go for another one or two scans before the 12 week one if all goes well as I know I'll be a nervous wreck xxxxx
We had a simpler thing happen to us back in March. We had a heartbeat at 6 w and then ar 10 weeks we found out we had miscarriage. We knew it was a little girl and I think that makes it more real. And as our due date of when I would have given birth gets closer I can’t help think ‘what if’. But you are so lucky that you have frozen embryos. Hubby and I have to start all over again with egg collection and it’s so hard to think we need to start from scratch all over again. After 3 -5 years of noting and then to get pregnant. It’s so not fair how close we were and now we have to start all over again. Keep strong....it gets easier!
Hi I haven’t had ivf but this has happened to me twice now in 8 months I get to 12w then it’s all over no baby no heartbeat just left empty and sad. Just finished miscarrying 😪
Feeling a bit blue :-(
Still in limbo 😭 sorry not a good rant
Beginning to feel a bit nervous!
A bit of a mixture today! Strep B, low folate and endo investigations..
