Spanish dream may be over.

[Mantaray75]

Was all going well but today had brown spotting and then a small amount bright red blood when I wiped. Seems to have calmed down now. Tummy cramps no worse than I've been getting the whole time.

Terrified as it was exactly this time that I started to miscarry before.

Had an extremely stressful day at work yesterday and then I did my normal pump class which I haven't done for a few weeks. Trying to think its due to any other reason than miscarriage.

Scan isn't due until next week when I'm 7 weeks. Bloods were looking really good when I last had them done on Friday but that was the case before when I miscarried.

Just wish something could go more smoothly for us in this whole process.

x

[KittyK]

It's not over until its over sweetheart. At about i weeks with my daughter i started getting spotting, brown and red. Definitely call your local epu or your clinic if you can to reassure your mind always report any worries but it doesnt mean the dream is over. My spotting lasted for a few weeks too. Thinking of you xx

[Mantaray75 in reply to KittyK]

Thanks. Unfortunately my clinic is in Barcelona and I live in New Zealand! From experience there isn't much that can be done. Just hoping.

x

[Niki_B in reply to Mantaray75]

Omg mantaray I'm in new zealand too! We don't really have a good support website like this one so that's why I'm always on here, love this page and these ladies. Oh I do hope everything is ok with you and embie/s. Maybe try and relax and de stress maybe take a couple days off work if you can? Xxx

Where in nz are you? I'm in windy wellys 😊 xx

[Mantaray75 in reply to Niki_B]

I'm in chilly Dunedin. After just spending 6 weeks in the UK and Spain i can't wait for Spring.

I'm gonna take a couple days off work.

x

[Niki_B in reply to Mantaray75]

Oh brrr yes be chilly down there! Oh wow yes be quite a change coming back to this. Bring on spring 😁. Glad your taking some time off just try and relax, and I'm sure everything is ok lots of women have bleeds it seems and evrerythings fine xx

[Hidden]

Hopefully it's just normal irritation from the pessaries. I have everything crossed for you. Try to rest up and de stress xx

[misswinky34]

Ohh I’ve been jumping on here to have a check how you are, you were ttc when I was, I hope it’s your time lovely. I’m in the uk, you came at the warmest we’ve had in years! Lol. There’s nothing I can say that will help you relax. Just know that I’m thinking about you. X

[lolita83]

Contact your clinic and ask for come advice I had bleeding and they were really helpful. Mine was in Spain too. They told me to rest until the bleeding stopped but yours may suggest different. I had huge bleeds and all was ok so keep positive if you can (I wasn’t able to be but my OH managed that bit for us) All the best chick!! Xx

[Cinderella5]

Oh how scary Mantaray! Really hoping all is well and it all settles down again!xx

[Hidden]

Oh goodness Mantraray75 I’m so sorry to hear this. I know how scared you must be feeling. Do remember lots of women bleed in early pregnancy and their baby is fine; my sister bled like a period at 5 weeks and my niece was fine! The obstetrician said it was implantation bleeding!

I truly hope the bleeding eases up & baby is fine. 💝 xoxo

[Mantaray75]

Thanks for all your lovely replies. You ladies are wonderful!

Bleeding has completely stopped now. Not even anything when I wipe.

Clinic suggested I rest and don't exercise for a week or have sex (as if I'm in the mood for either!)

Gonna check HCG today and Friday to check its still doubling.

Today I feel sick and have a headache so hoping its a good sign. Just don't think I'm gonna enjoy this pregnancy.

x

[Wishfully]

Good to hear the bleeding has stopped 😅 Best of luck in next week’s scan when hopefully you’ll get to see a teeny tiny heartbeat 💗 xx

[Mantaray75]

HCG was 20,000 today and I'm 5 weeks 5 days. Everything crossed. x

[Cinderella5 in reply to Mantaray75]

Great news!!💞🤗xx

[Hidden in reply to Mantaray75]

Wow, that is a brilliant number. Great to hear. Hope you do rest. Congratulations xxx