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Big day tomorrow.... I'm having mixed emotions

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All set for the twin transfer! I guess I'm more tensed and hopeful at the same time.... even more than when I had my first ever FET. There's plenty of stock but I still wish this works out on the first time. I know probably there's no way to really deal with this unnerving situation.... and it all truns out to be for good.

Any advice for the wait-out time?

Wish me luck ladies!!

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Just wanted to wish you luck my dear. I had a double transfer last thursday and ill be totally honest the 2ww is torture. I suggest relaxing, planning some nice days out obviously nothing too demanding.... but you will think about it every single minute of the day. Good luck and throwing baby dust right at you xxx

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Becca21β€’ in reply todestiny121

Thank you so much! It's great to know you've had a FET recently too. It's just great to join with some other expectant mother who had a transfer around the same time I did.... wish you all the luck in the world for a BFP. Yes, the 2ww is always a torture no matter which round you're on. I guess I just had a great revelation that no matter how much you know things or how much strong you think you are to toddle through 2ww you just never feel relaxed. I just logged in here, because I feel much more at ease to talk to all the lovely ladies, help people if I can and oh the success stories are like luck charms. I hope it does work out for both of us. Sending all love and good luck to you too!

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destiny121β€’ in reply toBecca21

Absolutely couldnt agree more.... i got my bfp today too... 2-3 weeks apparently πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ’•

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Becca21β€’ in reply todestiny121

Wow, that's awesome news... congratulations! I'm so happy for you. You got this on HPT or it's your OTD? They scheduled me up for an OTD is on 4th August. which is like 19 days from the transfer to be precise. My clinic asked me not to try POAS before 12DP5DT if I don't want to get upset unnecessarily and let my emotional breakdown spoil things up.

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destiny121β€’ in reply toBecca21

Yes my love... i had a frozen transfer with 2 embryos but i was naughty and tested from day...It was positive from day 5 after transfer up until today... i was told to test 12 days post transfer.... not sure what to do with myself now tbh... each day at a time xx

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Becca21β€’ in reply todestiny121

Hahahaa.... I know exactly what you mean... it's hard to resist testing! The 2ww is killing me really, with the twin transfer and no twitch I'm having a tough time to fight the urge to take a HPT. Each day the desire only grows stronger. I'm glad I didn't buy any, I doubt I could have refrained if I had one within my reach... lol. It's a BFP in your case already so you're past the risks.; the don't you dare to POAS do not count for you anymore. Well, I don't know for sure but since you're getting it on HPT ever since 5 days post-twin-transfer, chances are both got latched in your uterus. I've read both in posts and internet resources that an early detection can also be due to twin-conception. I can tell you what to do with yourself... hmmm maybe rejoice and be happy. :D :D You probably have double the reason to be happy and that will any way benefit the growing foetus. Love to you and your tiny beenies! :)

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destiny121β€’ in reply toBecca21

Wishing you all the luck im the world... and your kind words brought a tear to my eye... ive learnt on this journey to take each day as it comes and have faith and be positive...xxx

Good luck xx

Good luck Becca. Xx

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Pauleenka86

Good luck hunni.Got everything crossed for you xxxx

Good luck!! I also had 2 transferred in March and 1 baby boy on board πŸ™πŸΌ 2 gives you the best chance!! No way of escaping agony of the 2ww but get into some box sets/ good book and get on you tube for some implantation meditation and relaxing reiki music to help keep you calm. Keep thinking positive and say daily affirmations, it helped me and stops those negative moments creeping in. Stay hydrated, relaxed, no lifting, no caffeine obviously and just eat a healthy balanced diet. I never bothered with the pineapple core etc and had 4 bfp’s out of 7. All about having healthy embryos and a receptive womb lining πŸ™πŸΌπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ˜˜xxx

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magda22

Good luck! Xx

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Katty_Holz

Wish you all the luck in the world... keep us posted! :)

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Steph254

Hope it all went well and all the best!!❀️

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Becca21β€’ in reply toSteph254

Yes, everything went well, thanks to all the good wishes from all you lovely ladies! :D I realised that no matter which round of IVF you're on ... you cannot shake off the edgy - antsy-fidgety feelings. I haven't had any symptoms yet, not even a twitch it's 8DP5DT and it's making me ponder on the odds again. :( I just hope at least one of the two sticks... finger crossed!

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