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Hi guy

So I got a bfp but I feel awful really hormonal I started to watch this movie about infertility called one more shot I started to cry like a baby

I have cramping and just don’t feel like myself

I think I’m tried

Definitely feeling dizzy

I feel like I don’t even know what’s normal or not I know lots of infertility but nothing about pregnancy

I still don’t believe the pee stick and have continue to test don’t even know y

I’m feeling very sad please help , I thought I’d be over the moon I feel anxious and scared

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Sounds like normal first trimester symptoms I think. :)

Well I feel like that and have done since I got my BFP.

Xxx

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I hope me and you feel better soon x

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Congratulation for the pregnancy! I think it's best to refrain from emotional triggers for a while. Well, you can't avoid it all for sure but at least movies and Netflix can be chose, right....stick to rom-coms and happy story-lines with not much mind-boggling stuff. It's important that you not only stay healthy but relaxed and mostly have an emotional balance.

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I was thinking of you last night as had a proper meltdown to my OH. Think everything builds up eventually and scared about everything being ok.

Hope you feel better today and can relax over the weekend doing things you enjoy.

Xxx

I felt like that for the first few weeks. So tired and it was almost like I did not recognise myself (if that makes sense). Then I’d feel terrible because this is what I wanted but I was feeling miserable. It gets better. Be kind to yourself and drink LOADS of water. The hot weather is not a friend in the first trimester. If your anxiety is not improving, then it is worth seeing your GP to talk about counselling. Xxx

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Thank you I think your right it’s the guilt and everything, I feel jus odd

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Tugsgirl

I cried over that and I’m not even pregnant! All your symptoms sound reassuringly normal. Don’t be too hard on yourself xx

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strong-girl in reply toTugsgirl

Ur right Tugs girl

We need to be kind to ourselves

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Caza2009

Just wanted to send you a massive amount of love 💕 I have no advice as have never gotten a BFP before, but I’m sure everything you’re feeling is totally normal. Your hormones are bound to be all over the place xxx

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strong-girl in reply toCaza2009

Thank you so much and I’m sending you lots of baby dust believe me your time will come chin up x

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😊💕

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Sarahlou01

I’m the same. I didn’t believe the bfp either and continued to test until 8 weeks and it started looking fainter so I then panicked and booked a private scan for reassurance even though the viability scan had shown a lovely little heartbeat! My anxiety has settled a bit since having the private scan at 9 weeks and 4 days but like you i’m emotional too. I think it’s completely normal, I keep crying when i’m hungry and overtired! I’m driving the hubby mad 😂 Good luck to you xxxx

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hi, Don't take the stress. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. Go for the checkup. Consult a good doctor. My best wishes are with you. All the very best. My prayers are with you. Lots of love

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This is EXACTLY how I feel! Starting to believe my BFP since I’ve now done five tests 🙈 and OTD is tomorrow anyway. But the cramping is more than I expected it really does feel like my period is going to arrive any minute and def sharing the dizziness which I hadn’t heard of as a symptom before so it worries me and I’ve been trying to up the water but not working so far.

I also watched that doc just after EC and cried like a baby! But by the end it did give me hope.

Just wasn’t expecting these emotions once I finally got my BFP but I’m just completely terrified that it’s all a lie or going to come crashing down on me.

BUT we can do this 💪🏻 xx

Hi there. Hope you are doing well. I know during pregnancy you are on the roller coaster of emotions. So it's obvious. I know you must be very touchy right now. Infertility is very tough. But you should be happy. You are going to be a mother soon. Don't take the stress. Stay happy. It's very important to you. I wish luck to you. I hope everything will be fine soon. Good luck.

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