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Hello!! It's been a while! (Update)

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Hello you lovely bunch.

So I've not updated for a while as I've been having a bit of a rough time of it. My last post was that I had had a bleed at 6 weeks pregnant & found out we were having twins! Yey!

So I had extreme nausea from 5 weeks, which at 9 weeks the sickness started, all day, everyday. I got sent to hospital & put on an IV drip, where they said I had severe hyperemisis gravardium. Then at 12 weeks I was admitted overnight again as I had lost 1.5 stone in weight & was severely dehydrated. The babies were absolutely fine! It was just me who was rough! Then just before I was 14 weeks I had a major bleed, cramps, huge clots, the lot! I was admitted in over night again. They said it was a threatened miscarriage. However the babies were fine, with strong heart beats. That was one of the scariest things I've ever delt with, I was certain that I was loosing them. Then I was due back at work when there was a child slap cheek! So I had to have a blood test & wait for those results too! It has been such a rollercoaster of emotions, thankfully I've had scans every week from 6-12 weeks & every 2 weeks since, I could not have managed without them! It's been 2.5 weeks since my major bleed & I'm still bleeding brown blood, I've also got a bit of tummy pain this afternoon. I'm getting so anxious again, and I feel like the pregnancy is ginxed! So I'm 16 weeks & feel as nervous as i did from day 1!

Sorry to go on, but I know you all won't mind! If you don't know me please look back over my history!!

Lots of love to you all xxx

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Wow what a story! You poor thing!

Fingers crossed you get an easier ride from now on.

Xxx

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Thank you xxx

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Tugsgirl

Oh what a rollercoaster you’ve been having! Such a shame you’re having so many difficulties 😞 It sounds like you have some good support medical wise, that your Doctors are on the ball so to speak. I really hope you can begin to relax and enjoy your pregnancy soon. Keep us posted and good luck xx

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Becky179 in reply to Tugsgirl

Yeah, these naughty pumpkins are really making me work for them! Hope you are doing ok. Xxx

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elle80

Aww nice to hear an update from you, but so sorry you've had a bit of a rough time of it though!! 😔 It's reassuring that the hospital have been good to you.

Fingers crossed these cheeky little babies stop worrying their mummy and the rest of your pregnancy is a joy 😘 xx

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Becky179

Lol! They are very cheeky! Every scan they are messing around 😂. Hopefully it will all settle down soon! Hope you are ok. Xx

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Millie198528

Oh what an awful time you have been having! Glad all is OK with babies still and good you get scans every 2 weeks xx

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Becky179 in reply to Millie198528

Thank you! They want me to start weaning off the scans, but im still not ready! Xx

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Daisy14

Oh my goodness you’ve really been through it! I had HG and it was just awful. But you’re still going and doing well.

Rest, keep thinking ahead and sending lots of positive thoughts! Xx

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Becky179 in reply to Daisy14

Thankyou! People just dont understand that your not "just sick" scan on Thursday, so hopefully all ok. Hope you are well. Xx

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Autumnmoon

You truly have had a rough ride those babies seem to be tough little fighters though hope you get a break soon and the rest of your pregnancy is a bit calmer x

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Becky179 in reply to Autumnmoon

Thank you! Xx

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emu2016

Rollercoaster IVF.... it never ends! So relieved to hear you’re ok xx

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Becky179 in reply to emu2016

It really never does! If it's not one worry it's another! Thank you Xx

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SianieShorts

So happy for you. Congratulations!! Xx

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Becky179 in reply to SianieShorts

Thank you xxx

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Cinderella5

Wow you are having a really rubbish time of things Becky! Hopefully that's you over the worst now and everything settles down!xx

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Becky179 in reply to Cinderella5

Yep, these naughty pumpkins are keeping me on my toes! I'm hoping things settle down soon & maybe I can start to enjoy being pregnant! However this heat isn't agreeing with me! 😂 & I'm huge already! Hope you are well. Xx

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mimisquiz77

Oh dear. Poor thing. I hope things will settle soon. I will keep my fingers crossed for you 🤞It must be nerve wrecking. I am glad to hear you were look after. Have plenty of rest. Please keep in touch. Good luck. Take care xx

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Becky179 in reply to mimisquiz77

Thankyou very much. The hospital have been amazing, im very lucky! Xx

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LKT1

Hope things get smoother for you. Make sure you set some ‘you’ time aside to help you get some relaxing time in. Only natural to feel anxious though but sounds like everyything is in place with regular scans. Keep up the good work and well done you have been through a lot and it sounds like you are an absolute trooper xx

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Babysitt

So sorry you are have a roller coaster on and off be positive and believe that you will be fine and get through stay strong Becky all the best

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