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Just wanted to share my story to give hope to others in a similiar situation. I am 32, married and have been trying for a baby for 8 years in Sept. I have PCOS and unexplained infertility. Last year I went through 2 failed rounds of IVF within a 6 month period. This had a negative impact on my mental health and in November I took 5 weeks off work due to depression. I went back in January after starting beginners yoga, a mindfulness workshop and rejoining slimming world. I lost 2 stone and for the first time in a long time started to really look after myself. We have one frozen embryo but had decided to delay our third cycle until the new year. I am working full time and just coming to the end of a masters degree. Last week we moved house and bought a new car we also found out we were pregnant - naturally! Today I had an early scan (6 weeks) and saw the heartbeating. I know we all hate it when people say, 'it will happen when the times right' or 'just relax and it will happen' but maybe there is a glimmer of truth in it?? I had pretty much given up on ever being a mammy and I know ive got a long road ahead yet but I'm just so grateful and wanted to give others a little hope xx

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destiny121

What a lovely ending to a long journey... well done you for loosing 2 stone and congrats on the new house..... and ohh my you’re pregnant.... massive congratulations and wish you the best for a happy and healthy pregnancy.... thx for sharing xxxx

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Hayleigh86 in reply to destiny121

Thank you so much, never imagined id be writing a post like this xx

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Tugsgirl

Congratulations xx

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Hayleigh86 in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you xxx

Lovely story!

I have been really taking care of myself too after a failed cycle and it feels so good.

We are trying natually in between IVF's and still feel hopeful.

I hope I am like you then as I am well and truly relaxing now.

X

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Hayleigh86 in reply to

I honestly hope so to. I Have always struggledwith my mental health, been an overthinker, a worrier, always put work and other people first. Something had to change and I made it happen. This time last year I was in such a different place. I wish you lots of luck xx

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Claire_2018 in reply to Hayleigh86

Hi Hayley congrats! What lovely news! Would love some advice as I'm all of those things you mention above! Claire

So lovely to read you have had a happy outcome x that made me smile !

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Hayleigh86 in reply to

Thank you, that was my reason for sharing xx

Thank you for sharing. I am so happy for you xxx

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Hayleigh86 in reply to

Thank you for reading xx

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Kdixxy169

Congratulations, I can really relate to hour mental wellbeing. It's so good to see a good happy story on here. Well done !!! Xxx

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Hayleigh86 in reply to Kdixxy169

Thank you, as much as the end of last year was so difficult I really am grateful to have been through it and learnt so much about myself and my mental health and wellbeing x

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Sunshine92

What an uplifting story to read! It has definitely given me hope. Congratulations lovely xx

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Hayleigh86 in reply to Sunshine92

Thank you so much, and lots of luck xx

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Sarahhol72

Congratulations what a lovely end to the story for you guys 😊 Wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy xx

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Hayleigh86 in reply to Sarahhol72

Thank you so much xx

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Biala

Congrats am next in line

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Hayleigh86 in reply to Biala

I hope you are 🤞🤞🤞 xx

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mimisquiz77

Congratulations! That’s a wonderful news!!!! I am really happy for you. You achieved so much while trying for a baby(master degree, losing weight ...). I am not sure I could have done it. Well done 👍 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💖

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Hayleigh86 in reply to mimisquiz77

Thank you, its been a case of having to haha x

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Autumnmoon

How fantastic! You just never know ! Wishing you all the very best hope you can enjoy your lovely surprise pregnancy x

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Hayleigh86 in reply to Autumnmoon

Thank you so much xx

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kumkums

Oh wow. Big congratulations to you. What a lovely story. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy.

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Hayleigh86 in reply to kumkums

Thank you so much x

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Littledee88

Massive congratulations to u hun love hearing stories like this. Wishing u a healthy happy pregnancy and all the very best 💗xx

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Hayleigh86 in reply to Littledee88

Thank you so much x

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Hayleigh86

Thank you so much xx

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