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So I’m currently 12 weeks + 6 days scan tomorrow.. and I’m terrified there will be no heartbeat like last time... it’s all I can think about I’m driving myself mad 😔 sorry just need reassurance or a prayer

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precioce

Hi, I am 12 weeks today and also have our scan tomorrow. Last time we got to this point the scan showed that our baby was very ill (went on to receive an Edwards diagnosis for our little girl). Very nervous about tomorrow even though we have had an early scan and all seemed OK. I don't think we'll feel any different until we get reassurance at the scan that all is well. I will put out a prayer for both of us.xx

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Kitkat82 in reply toprecioce

Thank you and me for you 🙏🏻 xx

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Wishfully

I hope everything goes well for you, I’ll keep my fingers crossed! xx

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Looby25

So sorry to hear what you went through before. I was petrified for our 12 weeks scan too, I was also frightened that there wouldn’t be a heartbeat so I think it’s normal to feel nervous, even more so with what’s happened to you before! Try and stay calm and positive, wishing you all the very best and will be thinking of you x x

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwwww lovely, your always in my prayers. I know how hard it is but I also feel that everything will be fine tomorrow and you'll be able to relax for a bit. You deserve this so much my love. I believe you've just had a easy time regards symptoms and naturally your anxious.

What time is your scan tommorow I was gonna pm you later.

💝😘😘

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Kitkat82 in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you lovely... it’s at 11.20 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toKitkat82

I'll be looking out for your update. Is hubby going with you 💝😘💝

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Kitkat82 in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Yeah although this sounds awful... I’d rather go on my own 😔

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toKitkat82

Bless ya. Its good to have the support hun. Thinking of you 💝😘💝

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Autumnmoon

I can understand your fear but hopefully this time tomorrow you will have been reassured will pray for you x

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Gillyc1

This is such a scary process from beginning to end but I’m sure everything will be fine . Will be thinking of you xxxx

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kumkums

I pray and hope you get good news tomorrow. I have just prayed and will continue to pray for you and precioce . Let us know how it goes tomorrow.

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Kitkat82 in reply tokumkums

Thank you so much xx

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precioce in reply tokumkums

Thank you.xx

Hopefully you get a good night's sleep and all goes well tomorrow xxx

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LHow81

It’s so hard, I worried at every scan I’ll be thinking of you today and hoping to read good news. It will get easier as time goes on xx

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Becky179

Fingers crossed for you today. Xxx

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Cinderella5

Good luck!xx

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EmmaWills

Kitkat, I advise you not to worry and overthink. Because it can affect your health as well as the baby. I know the fears are real, and they don't leave you until you hold the baby. I have been through it all. I have been petrified when I conceived the second time. The miscarriage took all my sanity. So being anxious, and fearful is natural. You can talk with your doctors for further reassurances, I wish a healthy journey. Good Luck xx

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