Update on my BFN after 3 BFP's........clinic wants me to wait

[SuzanneAM]

Spoken to my clinic and because I'm having pregnancy symptoms, cramp and nausea for the past couple of days and still today they want me to wait until Monday and take another pregnancy test. I asked can't they do anything today like bloods etc but they want me to wait as although it's very rear there is a possibility the two tests I've taken are false negatives especially as they where not my first urine of the day. I don't no what to think, I'm not going to get my hopes up though and think its unfair that I have to stay in limbo until after the weekend. I feel like I just need to get my head around the fact that this attempt is over and not even give myself a bit of hope that its going to be ok because the upset will be worse on Monday. My mum is saying its not over yet I could still be pregnant but deep down I just think its over as I've never heard or read anything similar.

Does anyone know of this happening to anyone? False negative after so many positives xx

[elle80]

It's a shame they can't give you a blood test! The waiting and being in limbo must be really difficult. I'm just hoping that come Monday it's a positive again. Xx

[Autumnmoon]

Thinking of you and hope all turns out well x

[Hidden]

Thinking of you xx

[Hidden]

Can you test again in the morning? It’s unfair they’re not doing your bloods and giving you some answers. My clinic let me have my bloods drawn 6 days post transfer even though v early. I was pregnant but that particular one ended in a chemical pregnancy. Really hope you get some good news and can put your mind to rest xxx

[Lynnr54]

I can’t believe they won’t do your bloods. I was similar though. I had a positive then a negative and the clinic made me stay on meds for an additional 3 days “just in case”. I asked whether it was possible for hormone levels to go down then back up and they couldn’t really answer that one. Needless to say the test 3 days later was still negative. Sorry I can’t bring better news and I know it’s an awful feeling being in limbo, wanting to deal with it and move on but not being able to. The only advice I can give is to not get your hopes up and if it is a positive after the weekend then it’s a massive bonus x