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13dp5dt going to phone the clinic (again) Wish me luck lol *update they phoned me back*

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*So the lovely nurse I liked phoned me back and said all the right things to make me feel better. I now have a scan on 15th May!!! Thanks everyone for your comments, it means a lot* πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™

Morning

As you may know, I phoned the clinic on 11dp5dt to say I was pregnant and was running out of pessaries. The nurse wasn't very enthusiastic and told me I tested too early and really put me in a bad mood.

I am going to phone again today (not Monday like she said) because I just want to be able to relax and enjoy this moment! I want to be feeling excited, but since Wednesday I've not been able to do that!

She can't say it's not right and too early now!

Wish me luck lol πŸ˜‚

And Good Luck to everyone who is testing today 🀞😘 xx

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beauty1984

Congratulations 😊 and good luck x

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elle80β€’ in reply tobeauty1984

Thanks, I'm sure I will be back later in tears haha. Hopefully I will get a different nurse!! Xx

Good luck - just keep on pressing that you will run out of pessaries before Monday and there is nothing that they can argue with! X

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elle80β€’ in reply to

Aww thanks Zoe. Got my pessaries now, went to my GP lol. I just want a health professional to say congratulations and book me in for a scan. At the moment I still feel like it's not real and it's all going to go wrong because of how the nurse spoke to me on Wednesday xx

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Lilli79

You are definitely pregnant Michelle! 😍 Congratulations! Hope you get a nice nurse later xxx

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elle80β€’ in reply toLilli79

My favourite nurse phoned me back 😁 xx

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elle80

Thanks Lilli. You lovely lot make me feel better 😘 It's just so weird, we've been trying for over six years and have never been pregnant!! πŸ’™ Xxx

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Dreamingofbaby

Congrats. Best wishes x

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elle80β€’ in reply toDreamingofbaby

Thank you hun xx

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Becky179

Congratulations!! Ooh what a hag! You be excited as much as you want! Xx

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elle80β€’ in reply toBecky179

Thanks Becky.. I need to start being a bit more positive lol xx

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Becky179β€’ in reply toelle80

I know it's hard. I'm not even slightly excited yet! Xx

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elle80β€’ in reply toBecky179

I'm glad it's not just me then. I felt like I was a bit weird cos other people have tears of joy and I can't even seem to get a bit excited yet! My mum is more excited than me lol xx

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Becky179β€’ in reply toelle80

The only moments I've been "Happy" is at the scans when I see the heartbeats. Then I go back to normal after πŸ˜‚. it's definitely our coping mechanism. Xx

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Louhanlonβ€’ in reply toelle80

I am so excited for u my husband and I . Did ICSI at agora in hove . we were so excitied our cycle worked first round . Seeing that positive after 4 years of negative was amazing our baby is due 14th November off for 12 week scan next week xxx

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elle80β€’ in reply toLouhanlon

Aww congratulations, that's fantastic news xxx

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Louhanlonβ€’ in reply toelle80

Thank you so much have u a due date yet

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elle80β€’ in reply toLouhanlon

No, don't even have a first can date yet haha. I did one of those calculators and it says 31st December, which will be my 7 Yr anniversary of when me and my husband became bf n gf lol xx

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Louhanlonβ€’ in reply toelle80

That’s amazing when is ur scan booked . My 12 weeks is next Friday feeling nervous positive at same time xxx

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elle80β€’ in reply toLouhanlon

Hopefully they'll give me one today and don't fob me off like they did on Wednesday, saying it was too early. Supposed to phone tomorrow but nobody will be there, so she said phone Mon, but I don't see why I can't phone today. Good luck at your scan xxx

Good luck lovely ; really hope you get a nicer nurse. I can’t see what difference it makes one day early. Xoxo

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elle80β€’ in reply to

Lol me neither, it's either one day early or two days late lol. I just don't want her to make me feel rubbish again. Literally too scared to call xxx

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AndRelax

I think your clinic made you wait too long anyway! We had the same 5 day transfer day and I was allowed to test on Wednesday! Congratulations on your bfp, hope you get a more understanding nurse today xx

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elle80β€’ in reply toAndRelax

I think so too!! Haha.

It just seems so unfair how some clinics want you to phone earlier and others are so strict and won't even allow you to think that the 10 positive tests you've done are correct!!πŸ˜‚

Thanks for the congrats πŸ’™ xxx

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WaywardGirl

Congratulations! I was in a total panic the last few days, but have just had the conversation with the clinic where they did say congratulations sand booked my scan so I know what you mean! I now can’t stop smiling!

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elle80β€’ in reply toWaywardGirl

Aww I'm so pleased for you, especially as that duff test this morning threw a spanner in the works!!! Lol.

Yeh so having the clinic saying congrats, is like a massive relief!!! πŸ’™ Xx

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elle80β€’ in reply toWaywardGirl

My scan in now booked for 15th May xx eek

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Rachael_

Good luck michelle and a huge congratulations lovely ❀️ ... dont let that sour nurse knock you down i had this at my clinic on my first follicle scan she was like ... β€˜dont expect egg collection any time soon u need more scans’ proper snotty and rude wile im lied there bare below i could of shoved that probe up her nose πŸ˜‚ ..... anyway low and behold second scan different nurse and lovely, i told the nurse what the previous had said and she went ballistic knew who i was on about straight away and said she would have a word ive requested i dont see her again πŸ˜‚ you keep your good news and dont let anyone knock you down youve gone through alot to get were you have now enjoy every moment β€οΈπŸ‘ΆπŸΌxx

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elle80β€’ in reply toRachael_

Haha πŸ˜‚ that made me LOL Obviously not how she spoke to you but your response!! If I'm brave enough, I will say something if I'm made to feel horrible. I think I know which nurse it is, it's one of two! Hopefully it's their day off. If not I'll put the phone down and phone a different number haha xx

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Rachael_β€’ in reply toelle80

Hahaha do it blame the hormones they will come in handy for something eh πŸ˜‚... im glad i could cheer you up i hope everything goes well for you michelle anyway keep us posted on how you get on ❀️ xx

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elle80β€’ in reply toRachael_

I will do!!!!!!! Eek xxx

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Emmad781

Amazing

Congratulations x

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elle80β€’ in reply toEmmad781

Thank you Emma xxx

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elle80

Nobody is answering the telephones!!! Argh

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Nightmare. That sounds about right with the NHS; can you leave a message to be called back? xoxo

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elle80β€’ in reply to

I hate using the phone, I start stuttering when I leave messages haha. I got through to reception and asked if the nice nurse I get on with is on duty and she is, so I've asked if she can phone me back!! Lol. Hopefully she can book me in xxx

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Autumnmoon

Whatever the reaction Don't let anyone spoil it for you Congratulations! Really hope they are nicer though x

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elle80β€’ in reply toAutumnmoon

Thank you! I hope so too πŸ€ͺ xxx

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AlexHoBo

Looks like a big fat positive !!! Congratulations πŸ€πŸ™Œ

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elle80β€’ in reply toAlexHoBo

Thank you Alex 😘 xxx

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julietyler

Congratulations Hun xx

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elle80β€’ in reply tojulietyler

Thank you Julie. Feeling a little more excited now! Xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwww hurray your pregnant. Huge congratulations hun and wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy

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elle80β€’ in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Ha ha Thanks. I can finally say with confidence that I am definitely pregnant right now!! Xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluvβ€’ in reply toelle80

Good feeling isn't it hun. Huge congratulations πŸ’πŸ˜˜

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everhopeful83

Congratulations! Xx

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elle80β€’ in reply toeverhopeful83

Thank you everhopeful83 😘 xx

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NMP1026

Aww bless you hun. Congratulations and enjoy xx

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elle80β€’ in reply toNMP1026

Aww Thank you lovely xxx

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Autumnmoon

Glad to read your update x

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elle80β€’ in reply toAutumnmoon

Thank you lovely. I'm feeling a bit more relieved now... πŸ’™ Xx

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Lynn31181

Congratulations, so pleased for you. Your scan is the day before mine. I just want to get to that point now. :) xxx

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elle80β€’ in reply toLynn31181

Aww is it! Yeh me too, I'm OK atm but I reckon by the end of next week I'll be climbing the walls lol. Good luck for your scan xxx

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Star9

Congratulations your lovely news xxx 😊

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elle80β€’ in reply toStar9

Aww Thanks Star... Still feels weird, I still pee on sticks just to make sure πŸ˜‚ xx

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Star9β€’ in reply toelle80

I don’t blame you, I think I would do exactly the same! πŸ™ˆxxx

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