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So worried it's happened again

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I'm 7 weeks pregnant today & I won't lie, I've been worrying non stop since I got my BFP. I've had 2 missed miscarriages around the 6 to 7 week mark before & I'm scared stiff it's happened again. I was sick last week & thought great, morning sickness finally! After 2 days it stopped! I'm tired but not sleeping well. I have to burp so many times a day ( nice eh ) & that's still happening as is my cramping but my boobs seem to feel like normal this morning. I don't want to go for my early scan because I'm so afraid of being told the baby has no heartbeat ☹. Is it normal for symptoms to go quite this early? Xx

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Shanks_21

I found my symptoms didn’t kick in properly until after 7 weeks there were times when I didn’t even feel pregnant! As hard as it is sweet just try and stay positive. The symptoms you have mentioned were all ones I experienced but were never consistent they did come and go - I’m 33 weeks now x

in reply to Shanks_21

Thanks Shanks, you have made me feel a bit better with your reply 🙂. It's good to know you had the same symptoms which came & went. Congratulations 🎉 on your pregnancy, I hope you have a wonderful birth in a few weeks time 😘 xx

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Shanks_21 in reply to

Thanks lovely! Hope you have a healthy and happy pregnancy xxxx

I can completely understand why you are worried with your history but symptoms do come and go some days worse than ever some days hardly any. I think I read it’s when you have a surge in hormones you might feel worse then your body adjusts. Plus you are highly sensitive to everything your body is doing because you are anxious some people get to months and months pregnant and never know they are. Good luck today lovely xxx

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Thanks for your kind words snuggles. I just hope I'm one of those women who has a healthy pregnancy with very few symptoms xx

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Hopeandwishes

Hi summer rainbow, I could have written exactly the same post this morning. I’m also 7 weeks pregnant following 3 miscarriages and feel like all of my symptoms have ‘switched off’. Sickness for 2 days, now gone. My boobs have been really sore, now gone. I have light cramping and have had constant spotting for 2 weeks. I’m sorry for your previous losses and completely understand your worries. It’s reassuring to hear the other ladies say that their symptoms did come & go. I really hope that this works out for us 🤞🏼 Good luck with your scan, hopefully it can give you some reassurance xx

in reply to Hopeandwishes

Hi sweetheart, I'm sorry to hear about your previous losses & that your anxious too. The previous losses totally & utterly ruin future pregnancies don't they, no matter how much I try telling myself be positive. I wish you all the best with your pregnancy & really hope you get your little baby this time 😘 xx

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Hopeandwishes in reply to

Let us know how you get on, we’re here if you need us xx

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Much appreciated xx

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elle80

Good luck at your scan xxx

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Thank you Michelle xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwww hun. I so know this feeling it's the worst ever, hugs to you.

Symptoms can come and go hun I'm 12 weeks and they went a ,couple weeks,ago and the last three days came to bite me in my bum.

I hope your scan really offers you ressurance lovely that you so deserve.

Big hugs keep us updated 💝😘

in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you sweetheart, you have helped me with quite a few of my worries. Much appreciated, hope everything is still going really well for you 😘 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Glad iv helped a little hun, just try to hang in there I know it's hard these bloody losses really do plague pregnancy it's not fun at all.💝

I'll find out tomorrow if all is still OK hun dating scan tomorrow.

💝😘

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Autumnmoon

Hope all goes well for you x

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Thank you xx

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