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Well I’ve finally got my results and had more blood taken!!
My hcg was only 7!!!! I no it’s not good news now but I’ll wait for the doctor to ring later!! If they do!!
Thank you everyone for your lovely comments but I think we can safely say this didn’t work this time!!! Here’s to the fet xxxxx
Oh I'm sorry Lisa!xx
This time obviously wasn’t meant to be!!! We’ll stay strong and keep going xxx
I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending you a big virtual hug xx
Thank you!!! Xxx
I'm sorry to read this Lisa. Hope you're doing ok xx
Thank you we’re doing ok, just taking it one step at a time xxx
Sorry to hear this Lisa x take care of yourself during this time and don’t loose hope 😘 xxx
Thank you!!! We won’t don’t worry! Bring on round two xxx
I'm very sorry to hear this but admire your strong attitude. Fingers crossed that your fet brings you your rainbow baby. Thinking of you xx
Thank you I think it’s the only way to be!!!! This obviously wasn’t meant to be our time so we’ll look forward to the next embryo being transferred xxxx
I’m so very sorry 
I know this feeling well! Sending big hugs and best wishes for future fet’s
Have you been through the same!!! It’s tough going isn’t it but we’re strong and can get through it!!! Thank you xxxx
I certainly have!! So draining and devastating! I’ve had too many miscarriages and chemical pregnancies too but after a period of feeling v low I bounce back quickly, look at everything i have to feel blessed about and try again. After all that I did have a successful pregnancy. You just have to give yourself time to grieve, be kind to yourself and crack on if you really want it and you will always get there 
Xxx
Aww bless it’s a tough road to go down but we choose to do it for a reason!!!
How many transfers have you had??? Hope you don’t mind me asking xxx
You can ask me anything! I feel like a fertility expert with the amount of procedures and consultants I’ve seen lol. I’m currently on my 7th transfer, all have been fet’s and out of these 4 have been bfp/positive and all but the last one have been PGD tested xxx
I’m sorry to hear this. But you are right to look forward to the next opportunity xx
Second time lucky... xxx
I am so sorry to learn of this. I feel really disappointed for you. Please don't give up. Sending you a hug. Take care. Do something that cheers you up this afternoon/evening.xo
Oh my love I’m so truly sorry to hear that; i suffered an early miscarriage and I know how devastating it is; my heart goes out to you. My fertility specialist said to me recently “ through the dark cloud the silver lining is you did conceive and this is positive “ I thought it was beautiful and summed something inspiring ; yes we did lose a baby but we conceived ;which we had never done in 6 years of ttc and I chose to see it as it has” shown” my body how to get pregnant and that is good thing 😊 Thinking if you and sending lots of positive thoughts to you xoxo
Sorry you went trough the same too, i keep saying it’s a big rollercoaster ride!!!! Thank you!! I’m thinking a bit the same!! I’ve never seen a positive on a test since I had my son 14 years ago, so I’m thinking of it as a big positive!! Maybe our time is next time! Fingers toes and everything crossed!!!!
Did they scan you after your miscarriage??? They had already booked me a scan after my positive but I’m guessing I won’t attend that now xxxx
Thank you. Certainly is! 🙄
Yeah they did my love; I had to wait till till I would’ve been 6 weeks; they can usually detect a heart beat by then. They have to rule out ectopic pregnancy and be sure all the content has gone; with such an early pregnancy loss probably has it is procedure 😊 I had to see a gynae after the scan ( despite no pregnancy content left 🤷🏼♀️)and they did a pregnancy test and asked random questions and had my blood pressure and temperature checked and I was told I could try after the next period. It was pretty emotional even the gynae dr was fighting back tears😭 I didn’t have HCG checked; all they did was refer me to EPU after my bleeding.
For sure it is progress; if I didn’t see it like that I would be a really dark place and I refuse to be beaten 💪🏻
I have a 19 year old son; everyone like friends n family assumed that it had to be my hubby who had the issue; actually the issue lies with me; I have endometriosis. it’s funny you have one child and just assume it’ll happen again and then it doesn’t sure I was a bit older but still...😳 I’ve been referred to an endometriosis specialist by my fertility specialist after two laparoscopys which I had within 8 months apart treated endo in pod bit both times left it in my bowel. This journey certainly isn’t for the faint hearted..
I’ve no doubt we will be blessed ❤️❤️❤️ We were just unlucky and I’m sure next time we won’t be 😘
Ask the your GO if you need to go.
Again I’m sorry you are having to go through this.
Ah ok so the scan I have is for when I would be 6 weeks roughly so I guess I’ll still go!!!! That could be an emotional day!!!
It’s a strange one isn’t it, I thought after having one child it would be easy to have another one!!! But actually now it’s my partner that has the small problem!! He has the swimmers there just a little slow 🙈 so we needed the help!!!
I think deep down he’s blaming himself but I tell him not too!!! Think it’s just as hard for him as it is for me!!!
We’re gonna go out tonight for a nice meal as my mum has offered for my son to stay there tonight to give us some time together!!!! Might even have a cheeky gin 🙈!!
Wishing you lots of luck on the rest of your journey!!!! We’ll all get there one day xxx
He mustn’t blame himself. I felt a bit guilty when I knew it was “my fault “ but hubby said “no we are in this thing together. “ I think I was mostly relieved to know why it wasn’t happening for us ; we had all the standard tests so everything looked “ normal “ it wasn’t till I had a laparoscopy last June that I learnt I had endometriosis. It took 5 years 10 months off ttc to find it 🙄 I think it’s harder not knowing the cause of the infertility.
Trying for a baby can put such a pressure on you.; it shouldn’t be like that but that’s how it is in this situation 😒 definitely spending time together can really help ; we went away a few months ago and it was great to be away from the world of trying 🤫
I’d treat yourself; you deserve a few drinks 😉
Hold each other and look after each other ;you will get through this together ❤️❤️❤️ xoxo
Am right with you girl failed cycle bloods was like 1.... not even a hint.... gonna enjoy the rest of this weekend eating and finally having a sneaky drink or several.
Been through 8 x 2ww and they never get easier...
Have a few gins we deserve it x
Oh my gosh how have to kept sane going through all those!! This one was bad enough, you get over one hurdle and hit another!!!! But like you we’ll carry on till we’ve used all our tries!!
We had a positive on Wednesday but started bleeding Tuesday so that’s why they requested bloods!!! Guessing I had an early loss 😢!!
Have you any more embryos to use xxx
Hey miss
All of our cycles have been been fresh round after fresh round and private as we never was allowed nhs due to hubby have a daughter from previous relationships. When it comes to this journey you are not allowed to have a past history 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
We don’t have any frozen but may decide to go just one more time as my mum said she will pay.
Dunno though am 43 now but a hardcore ivf warrior.
Sorry for your loss I was following just silently in the background.
Give yourself a break enjoy you and hubby for a while before you get back on the game of ivf.
Wish U all the best x
Every area must be so different, we wouldn’t be accepted in one place due to me having a son but then another hospital would fund us!!
How annoying for you!!!
Sending lots of luck with whatever you decide to do!! We’re made of strong stuff ☺️!!
Xxxx
I’m very sorry to hear this Lisaworthy1981 😔 My last 2 IVF ended in chemical pregnancy and I was devasted, so my heart goes out to you, it really does. But I then fell pregnant naturally, the very next time I ovulated. I don’t know if that was just some crazy luck, or that the cervix is slightly more open after a MC, making conception easier. Either way I think it kick started something for me within my body & I hope it does the same for you!
The other thing which helped me a lot while I was sad, was knowing that in the vast majority of cases the pregnancy ends because something wasn’t quite right with the embryo - it’s our body’s very finely honed mini-human filtration system! So when the perfect one arrives, I’m sure it’ll nestle in and make a home for 9 months. This time just wasn’t meant to be, but there is every reason to think that next time it will be your time! Sending you the biggest hugs & all my sympathies xxx
Thank you!!! Awww wow that’s amazing news for you!!! Bet you feel so lucky!!
Think my body just needs a kick start too!!
Your right though, things happen for a reason and this time obviously wasn’t meant to be xxx
Bless you I am truly so so sorry hope you have lots of love and support around you be kind to yourself and hope for brighter days ahead take care x
So sorry to hear this hun 😘
😞 sorry xx
So sorry to hear this, look after yourself, sending love and positivity xxx
Oh Hun I’m so sorry sending hugs 💜xxx
I’m sorry to read this. Am loving your positive outlook. like you I think things happen for a reason... whatever that reason maybe.
Sending you big hugs 💕 xx
Gutted for you !! But as you say Stay strong and your time will come x
8 week scan.. not good news 😞
Good news 
Good news! 
**** UPDATE 💔😭 not good news im affraid ****** 
