Update not good news

[Vics77]

Hi everyone just wanted to let you know what’s happened, this was our 4th attempt but 1st with donor egg, we reached 8weeks pregnant but unfortunately I have had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago, taken me a few weeks to get my head around what’s happened and I’m much better now than I was, I really don’t know if we will try again at the moment we don’t have the money we also want to wait till travel restrictions have eased, it was stressful enough getting over to Spain the last time, part of me doesn’t know if I could put myself though the heartache again, but this was the furthest we had reached and part of me thinks if we did it one more time it would work again, I have also got a fibroid that I need to be removed but waiting lists for referrals are very long because of covid, on the plus side I’ve now had my 1st covid vaccine so I guess we should just see how things go, thank you everyone for all the support this is an amazing support network and good luck to everyone on your journey xxx

[Hatched]

Hiya really sorry to hear you are going through this. Its such a hard journey full of ups and downs and even more so in this pandemic. Take it one day at a time and be kind to yourself. We will all be here to support you whatever you decide to do. Best Wishes! xx

[hoping2021]

so sorry to hear this... look after yourself, and know that there are brighter days ahead xx

[Millbanks]

Hi Vics, I'm so sorry to hear this - I hope you are looking after each other. It's so cruel. xx

[Miracle43]

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Take care of each other 💖 x

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry for your loss Vics77! It's incredibly unfair and cruel for you to have to be going through this. Sending you huge hugs at this difficult time.💔xx

[Angels2us]

So sorry i hope you feel stronger soon xxxx

[Maisie234]

Oh Vic's I had been thinking about you and wondering how you were. I am so sorry to read this. It's absolutely brutal going through what you have done, you've done so well. One thing covid does is force a break, so while it's out of your hands just rest and you can make a plan later. I've been off this for a while but coming back on I can see so many happy outcomes. I think we will get there yet, I really do. Thinking of you. Xx

[Vics77 in reply to Maisie234]

Thank you it’s been such a difficult time especially as it was around the same time as Mother’s Day xx

[Green-elephants]

Sorry for your loss 🥰