Tube removal

[destiny121]

Can i just ask.... did anyone constantly cry before their tube removal.. ive cried 3x today already....

[Waitingforourmiracle]

I've not had this but I can only imagine the emotions going through you right now and I'm certain I would be in bits too. Sending you huge love and strength and try and focus on the positives of why this is being done. Huge hugs xx

[llc1987]

i found it really hard to come to terms with. Kept blaming myself for our fertility problems and lost track of how many times i told my husband he didn't need to stay with me if i couldn't give him a family. Thankfully, with his support i managed to think about it as a necessary step to move forward with ivf and it worked. Hang in there, let yourself cry but stay focused on why you're going it x

[destiny121 in reply to llc1987]

Ahhh thank you so much. Its less then 2 weeks away and i told my partner he can move lol.... he didnt seem too keen on that.... thank god 😂😂😂😂,..,, everything seems so final now....

[llc1987 in reply to destiny121]

it's all completely in our heads and irrational but i think only natural to worry. It does get better though. are you having one or both removed? I had one but had expected both removed. One wasn't as bad as the other so they decided to leave one so that i had a chance of conceiving naturally- less than 10%apparently so clinic suggested we go straight for ivf.

[destiny121 in reply to llc1987]

Well this is the thing... on my last cycle they could only see it in 1 tube.... but 2 years ago it was in both and i had surgery to drain and open them.... so not sure if its now just in the 1!

[KW83]

It is an awful thing to come to terms with. I'm waiting for another scan to confirm hydro in both tubes so likely that is the direction we're heading in too. Give yourself time and space to be sad, but I keep trying to remind myself that it's a step in the right direction. Best of luck for your surgery and wherever you go from there x