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So woke up from a nap and wiped and there was pink blood. I'm so so scared and I just know this is over. Hubby is in very important meetings so I can't call him and even if I could I can't bear to tell him over the phone. If it is what I'm expecting it to be would they still do a d&c if I've already started bleeding - I can't bear to lose this naturally

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AllWeNeedIsluv profile image
AllWeNeedIsluv

Oh hun, your having such a horrible time aren't you, big hugs I'm so sorry for what your going through, but try not to get ahead if yourself just yet hun, you could just be one of those ladies that bleeds and is absolutely fine, whens your scan booked for? 💗🤗😘

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Enaj51

Hoping all works out for you.

Stay strong x

Thanks ladies, I've never been more scared in my life. My scan is Friday at 3.15pm and whilst I've had no more bleeding since I posted I just don't feel confident we'll get to that scan

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llc1987

honestly try to relax and not panic. take the week off and put your feet up. Then watch every episode of Geordie Shore and thank God your life isn't like that. That's what i did when this was happening to me. I had spotting from week 5 until week 12. It was the most terrifying few weeks of my life as i wasn't sure i would be strong enough to go through ivf again. As it turns out there was no need to worry, i was just one of those women who spot alot in early pregnancy. i now have less than 9 weeks until I'm due. Stay positive...its not over! X

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LauraGU

I had this on and off for a few days to the point every time I went the loo my husband would ask if there was anything there. I know it’s easier said than done but try and relax and keep positive. It may well stop again. I’ve got everything crossed for you 🤞🏻 Xxx

Thank you ladies. Going to see what happens the rest of the day and I'll text my boss in the morning to tell him I won't be in this week.

I think I'm just so scared as this spotting was bright pink almost red. None on pad and I've not had anymore since when wiping but I've been in bed crying ever since.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

Oh hun, take the advice from llc1987, I know it's hard hun trust me I do iv been there enough times, the only thing you can do is rest and hopefully when you have that scan on Friday all will be fine, big hugs my love. 💗🤗😘

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llc1987 in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

definitely do, you're no good at work feeling like this anyway and your baby is too precious to put yourself through that stress. I also recommend ex on the beach for the long few days you have ahead. Be kind to yourself x

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply tollc1987

Thank you wonderful ladies. Have been in bed most of the day reading and just finished a book so about to start another one and hope it's one I can get stuck into. If not I'll be binge watching pretty little liars all week

Really wishing you all the best xx

Thinking of you, rest up and think happy thoughts xxx

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Chelle84

This happened to me too. I started bleeding quite heavy at 6 weeks, I thought it was all over but we made it to the 7 week scan which showed a heart beat💖 I had a second bleed again after that so I got a private scan which again showed everything was fine, I was that scared I got private scans every week until my 12 week scan sometimes twice a week just to make sure my miracle baby was still there. I know it's easier said than done but try not to stress every one is different and for alot of women bleeding is normal. My miracle baby boy is now 2 years old and I'm in the 2ww again trying to give him a sibling. Find something that will pass the days quick for you whatever it may be. Sending lots of luck your way xx

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Eliza28

Listen to all these positive stories, that’s what I’m doing. My scan is Thursday but had more pinky ‘stuff’ last night and a bit today. I’m hoping for a miracle but it’s so hard to picture I know. You’ve not had any heavy bleeding though have you or clots or pain? That’s all a good sign. My first spotting was bright red and as I said, the nurse didn’t seem concerned as long as it didn’t get heavy. Please try to stay positive x

Ladies your support and stories of hope mean so so much to me.

I'm trying to cling on to the fact it's never been heavy bleeding, never been clots and I've never had any tummy/period pains with it. Also apart from the old blood Saturday none of it has transferred to pads and I've been in them 24/7 since Saturday lunchtime. Nothing I can do but hope and pray that we don't lose a second baby in under a year

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Tugsgirl

Thinking of you and hoping so much that it’s just “one of those things” and that all is well with your little one xx

Just started getting period pains - have sent hubby out to get paracetamol but I want to go to the hospital. I can't lose this baby naturally 😢😢😢😢

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Chelle84 in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

Are you bleeding? I had pains too full on period pains when i thought I lost my baby but he was fine. Take your paracetamol and try sleep and hopefully the pains gone in the morning. Xx

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply toChelle84

No still no bleeding

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Chelle84 in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

Try stay positive and get a good night sleep see how you feel in the morning xx

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teergass

Hi Dear,

Sorry to hear that you walk up and wiped only to find that you were bleeding. I think there is no reason to worry because bleeding that occurs during pregnancy is for a reason. Sometimes it is for a good reason. So there is no need for worrying. What you need to do at this point is to monitor the bleeding so that the doctor can ascertain the cause and why. Well, it is true that bleeding could be a sign of imminent miscarriage. Some studies show that women experience bleeding in their early months of pregnancy. About 20% of the bleeding results in miscarriage. So as you monitor your pregnancy, I want you to be on the lookout for any of the following.

Cramping that will normally be felt in your stomach. Typically the cramping may be stronger than the menstrual cramps.

Tissue passing- monitor the bleeding and if you see anything like a tissue cramping, know that it is a miscarriage.

Cramping pain in the low part of the stomach- if you feel the cramping in the lower part of the abdomen, you should suspect an ectopic pregnancy. Similarly, if there is a sharp pain in the abdomen and experience some vaginal bleeding you should see a doctor immediately. This is an emergency and so you should not wait for your hubby. Now note that you may experience molar bleeding. It results from the growth of an abnormal tissue instead of an embryo. When this happens, the body must release the tissue

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LHow81

I so hope everything is ok. There are just as many positive stories as negative from the symptoms you’re having. Mines a positive story I had bleeding and cramps but still made it all the way through. Good luck xx

How are you feeling today? After my BFP my spotting turned to bleeding heavy with clots unfo and that doesn’t sound like what ur having at all. If brown or pink i think that is all very normal in early pregnancy. I know it’s difficult by try to stay positive until ur scan. U may just get the answer you want. Good luck!! Xx

Hi everyone, so I've woken up to no bleeding or pain - this pregnancy clearly wants to mess with my mind. Oddly in my sleep I felt a bit sick and I've woken up feeling sick - perhaps this could be morning sickness starting.

Just going to rest up for the next few days and pray this dream isn't over. Thank you all so much for your support in this difficult time I know I must be annoying you all with my worries but having lost our first baby less than a year ago it's such a scary time. I really appreciate all your support

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llc1987 in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

well that's good news. Still take the time off work and try to relax. Not long now until your scan. It's only natural to worry and that might not go away but you still have to try and enjoy your pregnancy. i still check the tissue every time i wipe-31 weeks later you think id have gotten over it by now! Home with sickness today so taking my own advice and watching the worst TV i can possibly find-any recommendations? X

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Chelle84 in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

That's great news! Yes keep your feet up and get plenty of rest. Support is exactly what you need going through this and there's no better people to get it from than the people who have went through exactly what you just did, it's not annoying in the slightest it's natural and I still remember the fear I had like it was yesterday so getting these reassuring stories will help. Wishing you all the best of luck xx

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WeeMrsH in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

I’ve get everything 🤞🏼🤞🏼 for you!! 😘

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

You can't annoy us hun. We're all here for you and each other xxx

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AliciaWill

Hi dear. I can sense your fear. Do not be confused. Meetings are not important than your life. Your baby should be your priority. I think you should tell your husband. He will take care of you. Do not take tension. It is not good in pregnancy.Normal bleeding during pregnancy is common. You should not be scared of it. However severe bleeding can cause trouble. One of my friends had to bleed in the whole course of pregnancy. She was blessed with a baby. She was asked to take rest a lot. Everybody is different. You should immediately go to your DH. Only he can tell you exactly. Anyways do not take it lightly. I wish you the best. I hope everything remains ok in your case.

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Waitingforourmiracle in reply toAliciaWill

Thank you - that was yesterday and bleeding stopped. Of course if it was heavy painful bleeding I would call him. I keep being told some bleeding in pregnancy is fine but once you see that first bit of blood it scares you as you think it's going to get more heavy. Luckily so far it hasn't but it's scary waiting to see what will happen.

Thank you for your kind words and reassurance

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Gem1982 in reply toWaitingforourmiracle

How are you getting on? Have things settled down? X

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Honeypie36

I'm currently 11 weeks and I started bleeding when I was 7 weeks and I panicked as well but Baby was fine, heartbeat was normal.... then this past weekend I started bleeding again, pink for 2 days and brown the 3rd day and Baby was still fine.... so I know it's hard cause we don't want to see anything resembling a miscarriage but try not to worry too much cause it can be just your body getting rid of old blood.... I'm wishing u well and happy thoughts cause I def know how u feel...

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emzlou25

Hey babez pink blood dont mean anythin bad ladies get this in pregnancy and epu will tell u its only when its bright red should u be concerned...try stay calm and drink plenty of fluid and get plenty rest xxx

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