Oh dear, bad news...

So after crying tears of joy at 9DP5DT, my spotting and cramping got worse and it turned out to be a chemical pregnancy. I’m taking positive thoughts from this in that we now know that we can get pregnant but the wee bean just wasn’t progressing as it should. Absolutely heartbreaking.

The clinic said we still need to test on OTD anyway and then let them know but I’ve had really thick heavy red bleeding now for 3 days, nothing could’ve survived the flood.

We’ve still got 2 Frosties so I guess we’ll just go again. Life can be very cruel sometimes xx

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

I had a chemical pregnancy last year and it was heartbreaking 💔

I love your positive attitude- it is huge progress and I’m sure you’ll do it again with a better outcome 😊

Take care xoxo

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Jess. So sorry to hear about ur CP as well. It’s so disappointing. We’ll just have to go again xx

[Gem1982]

I’m so sorry to hear this. I am going through the same I got a positive on official test day last Tuesday and today I have bleed heavy. I knew last week something was not right. It really is cruel that we have to go through this. Keep positive Hun! One day it will be our turn x

[Hidden in reply to Gem1982]

Oh no - Gem, I feel ur pain. It’s just heart breaking 💔Sorry to hear ur having to deal with the disappointment as well xx

[Tugsgirl]

This is very harsh. Wishing you lots of luck when you feel ready to progress with your fet xx

[Hidden in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thank you. 3rd time lucky maybe xx

[lianm8]

I am really sorry to hear this. This journey sure is tough. Thinking of you xxx

[Hidden in reply to lianm8]

Thanks Lian. Our joy was short lived but it’s still a cruel blow 😢 xx

[sanchia46]

It’s heart breaking to test positive and then bleed so heavily and lose it. Quite distressing really. I went through it last year. All the best x

[Hidden in reply to sanchia46]

Thanks Sanchia. I’m sorry to hear uv suffered the same thing. It’s tough going. We just have to try and stay positive for the next time xx

[sanchia46 in reply to Hidden]

Yes. Plan for your next cycle in your own time

[emu2016]

Big hugs xx

[Hidden in reply to emu2016]

Thanks Emu xx

[E_05]

Really sorry to read this xx

[Hidden in reply to E_05]

Thank you. Very disappointing xx

[Leesara]

Life can be so cruel, you’re right. Take it easy and one step at a time

[Hidden in reply to Leesara]

Need to re-motivate and pull up my big girl pants! Xx

[Lou7744]

Am so sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

[Hidden in reply to Lou7744]

Thanks Lou. It’s such a shame xx

[-noodles-]

so sorry fee. hope you find strength in the days ahead xxx

[Hidden in reply to -noodles-]

Thanks Noodles. I’ve got my fur baby for plenty cuddles and some time off work xx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry to hear this. This is so cruel. Try to stay positive and take care of yourself.x

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Hannah. Diet starts today! And plenty exercise, cuddles, dog walks. Onwards to the next round xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I feel you on all points! Picking up my first puppy in a few weeks and I'm back to running! Got to try stay positive! I'm inspired by your drive. Have a good day today.xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Well ur pup will definitely keep u busy!! What kind r u getting? We have a wee Border Terrier who is an absolute legend xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Gorgeous girl cocker spaniel. We're so excited. She'll be a great companion to our little boy who definitely gets lonely being an only child.

[Hope85]

So sorry to hear this Hun xxx

[Hidden in reply to Hope85]

Thanks Hope xx

[Wishfully]

I’m very sorry to hear this Hidden . I always used to think we’d get our BFP and that would be it... turns out there are more hurdles before it’s really viable. I hope your HCG doesn’t hang around too long so that you can start again really soon - I’ve heard of people getting a BFP the very next cycle after a CP!! Hopefully that will happen for you xx

[Hidden in reply to Wishfully]

Yeah I’ve heard this too Wishfully! My DH will be delighted to be so busy again 😂 Fingers crossed 🤞 xx

[ICSIRose]

I’m really sorry to be reading this!

My DH and I have been TTC for 8years, 2nd cycle of ICSI in October last year I had a chemical pregnancy... broke my heart!

I was signed off sick for weeks as I just couldn’t deal with being around pregnant people at work.

Remember to look after yourself and take the time you need to grieve!

Sending you lots of hugs xxx

[Hidden in reply to ICSIRose]

Oh ICSIRose, I feel ur pain. That was my first BFP for 14 years. My job is high pressure/stressy so I’ve already bn off a few weeks but I’ll need to get back soon.

On a +ve note - my sis in law is currently in labour and I’ll have a new niece/nephew very soon.

Good luck on ur journey xx

[QQLO]

It’s hard but we need believe in ourselves one day it will come. I just had 8 weeks pregnancy lose last week. It’s not easy to see no more heart beat on the screen. That’s life and we need give ourselves credit to go thru this journey and believe sun will shine again. It’s just the matter of time. Hugs!

[Hidden]

Thinking of you, take care of yourself xxx

[Cinderella5]

Ahhh sorry to hear that! Hugs xx