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I didn’t even make it to test date... but it’s the end of the road for me this time.

Heartbroken but what will be will be.... have to be positive for the next try... sending my love to you all 😘

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Aleelilook

Ah I’m sorry, it is so hard, take your time and be kind to yourself lovely x

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Jojo84 in reply to Aleelilook

Such sad news. Try and stay positive 😘

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry. It’s so hard to have all the hope and then for it to be taken away 😔 look after yourself xx

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Anna00

I’m so sorry lovely,it’s so hard I know but nothing we can do really.you did your best.look after yourself xx

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Violet5451

So sorry lovely. Xxx

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Littledee88

So sorry hun look after urself. And it will be ur turn one day, xx

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Smang

I’m so sorry, take some time to heal and try to stay positive xx

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TTCs

Ahhh i am absolutely gutted for u Gingergirl17, it seems there are so many BFN's on here lately. I fear i am not far behind with mine. Tested again today BFN at 11dp3dt, OTD is sunday. Sending u big hugs. Take care of yourself, this isnt easy 💞 xx

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7AVA

So sorry to hear this xxx

I’m sorry x

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Amanda86

So sorry 🙁 xxx

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Leo2017

So sorry to hear this!! Bfn’s are so tough!! 💔xx

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E_05

Sorry to read this, it’s so tough. Take some time to rebuild your strength x

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Lou7744

So sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Dunla

I’m so sorry you didn’t make it this time. I know your heart is breaking today. Be gentle with yourself in the coming days. Maybe try to do something nice over the weekend, have a wee treat. Anything at all that helps to make you feel a little bit better. I’ll be thinking of you. Sending you lots of love 💕 xx

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Shanks_21

So sorry for you sweet 😓 have a good rest, take care and look after yourself sending big hugs xxxx

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lorraineb61

Sorry to hear this xx

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Tezzabell86

I’m so sorry and if you ever need to chat you know where we are xx

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CBOO1

I’m so sorry, I know how you feel, I’ve just had the exact same thing, CD23 didn’t even get to 25 days & ive just had blood when I wiped. I can’t take much more of this! Big hug to you xx

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Caroliono4

So sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself xx

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Tugsgirl

So sorry. So many bfns. It’s just horrible and so unfair. Thinking of you... Good luck for the next try xx

Big big hugs. Sending you lots of warm thoughts at this horrible time. Be kind to yourself and don’t be afraid to ask for help. It’s horrible.

I'm so sorry. Sending you big hugs xx

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Cinderella5

Oh Im so sorry to read this! Sending hugs xx

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Shivvyboom79

Sorry to hear that hun.

Thinking of you and sending you a big hug. Xxx

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lauren3189

aww sorry to hear this xx

Sorry to hear this ginger. I know it is so bloody hard. I'm tired of this journey too. There's never any certainty. Thinking of you.xx

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KateEdison

Hey there. Sorry to hear about you. You didn't mention the reason for it. Do you know what it is? I hope you will be getting pregnant soon. This process takes time but you hang in there. You will be a mum soon. Try to stay positive and love yourself. Spend more time with your DH and people you love. Best wishes.

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Chantelle89

So sorry to hear this, love to you xxx

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jenifercox06

Well what can we say. It all depends. It was destined thins way. Please don't be sad. I am really sorry for your condition. May you get well soon my friend. Don't worry it's a part of life. One day we face one thing. The other day it gets changed. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. I know the sorrow remains forever but don't worry Just try again and again. You'll get this happiness soon again. Best of luck dear. BE calm. Everything will be fine. Don't worry.

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sony008

Hey beautiful lady! I am sending all positive thoughts and energy to you.Don't take the stress.it will soon happen.just keep trying..I am also going to try it this month again.hope I also do conceiving soon.I know it is so frustration and letdown situation when we are trying it does not happen.I was also in the same condition trying again and again and it's tough from month to month.Hope this time I got positive.

Sending you big hugs xxxx

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Gingergirl17

Thank you lovely ladies really means a lot to have you all on here sending loads of love to you xxxxx

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