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Starting again!

Hey ladies & gents!

I have been so eager to start treatment again since losing my twin boys & now it’s nearly here I’m so scared! Even calling the clinic yesterday I got a bit nervous & scared. So they have booked me in for a scan to check all is okay before ordering any drugs! Fingers crossed all is okay, think I would be devastated if anything jeopardised me using my little frostie in March.

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Hiya, I am sorry for your loss. I’m sure it is very daunting for you to get started all over again. Hoping so much things will go well for you x

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Thank you so much hope all is going well in your cycle! Fingers crossed for you xx

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Thanks so much xx

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I think it’s totally understandable how your feeling, I’m starting my FET in March and go between feeling positive and wondering how potentially il deal with more heartache. Really hope everything goes well for you x

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Thank you so much for your support. Going through a whole bunch of emotions recently. We can be March FET buddies! ☺️ Fingers crossed for us both xxx

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Definitely can! Hope this brings us our rainbows 🤞xx

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Are you doing anything to prepare for FET? Like eating anything different stuff like that? I’ve put on 5lb since my first cycle do you think this would make any difference? Might try and lose it want to try and mimic my last cycle as much as possible xx

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I’ve just gone back to eating healthier but nothing particular. I’ve come to think weight doesn’t have loads to do with it but I’m hoping to lose a couple of lbs before I start. Are you doing a natural or medicated cycle? Xx

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Yeah I think I’m going to do the same. I’m doing a meditated cycle as the Drs said the pessaries help Provent miscarriage apparently. How about you? Xx

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I’m doing a natural FET but with steroids and pessaries still. My consultant wants to try natural as both medicated have been unsuccessful xx

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Fingers crossed this is our time! 2018 babies! My cycle starts on 7th March is your early in the month too? Xx

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Definitely! 🤞 yeah my period should be due around 8th/9th March so will be starting then, can’t believe how close we could be in our cycles xx

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I am very sorry about your loss. All the best fir new cycle and I am praying for you.xx

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Thank you xx

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Good luck with your FET in March. It’s understandable to feel nervous and scared after everything you’ve been through. Good luck 😘

Got everything crossed for you 🤞 xxx

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Thank you Amanda! Hope your pregnancy is going going well. Congratulations xx

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Good luck hope! x

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Thank you! I hope you are well xx

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Hey there! I am sorry for your loss. It is unbearable for a mum to lose her child. I am sure you have gathered a lot of courage to start it again. I wish you to have a healthy baby. Don't be scared. Stay strong. It will go awesome. You will have a healthy baby. Soon you will be mum. You will feel out of the world. :) Wishes you good luck :) Stay blessed :)

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Thank you so much for your kind comments. Hope you are well & good luck on your journey xx

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Best of luck I havent experience this loss on IVF but i did have a MC at 18 years old and it has scared me. We can only go forward now. I am sad of your loss and i hope very much you get sucess this time. X

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Hi, thank you for your comment. And I’m sorry to hear about your loss. And congratulations on your BFP xx

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Aw Hun I’m really not surprised that your feelings that way, you’ve been through so much already. Here’s wishing you a successful round, everything crossed for you x x

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Hey! Thank you so much! Hope your okay. Just read your post I’m so gutted for you having to wait so long. Fingers crossed it goes mega quick or be able to see you sooner xx

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Aw thanks hunny, I know if seems trivial to be moaning about not starting when you guys are going through so much, just feeling so fed up about it today x x

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Oh don’t be silly Hun. I was exactly the same when I was waiting to start & im not the patient of people. I had to wait a while as I was told I had to lose weight then as my partner needed an operation and waiting time was about 6 months! Feels like I’ve been waiting for years now! Lol it’s just not fair is it! Other people don’t need to wait to get pregnant! Bloody frustrates me sometimes. Xx

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