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[80sDiva]

Hello to one and all I am new to this forum it was recommended to me by a friend so just thought I would say hello.

I am 40 and my Fiance is 50, we have been ttc for nearly 10 years now and have been on the IVF/Fertility roller coaster for about 7 years, 1 NHS cycle and 4 private 1st cycle failed then 4 pregnancies which sadly all ended in miscarriage, we have 1 frozen embryo left we are hoping to try again in the next few months.

It would be nice to maybe chat to others going through the same thing.

[Tugsgirl]

Hello my friend 👋 As I told you, you’ll find all the girls on here to be lovely, just as lovely as me 😂 (as you know lol)

Welcome xx 😘

[80sDiva in reply to Tugsgirl]

😘😘😘 xxx

[WeeMrsH]

Welcome 80sDiva. You’ve come to the right place! So sorry for what you’ve been through. We have been TTC 6 years, 3 IVF cycles all with BFP but all miscarried. We are awaiting a donor egg cycle to start. Wishing you all the best with your frostie. Much love x

[80sDiva in reply to WeeMrsH]

Hello WeeMrsH and thank you, I am so sorry for your loss and am wishing you all the very best with your donor egg cycle keep us posted 🤞

Lots of love xxx

[WeeMrsH in reply to 80sDiva]

Thank you my lovely x

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

Welcome! None of us really want to be in this boat but since we are, it’s nice to feel less alone so you’re in the right place!

Your journey sounds as though it has been really difficult. Have you been given any idea of what could have caused your miscarriages?

Good luck for your next cycle. X

[80sDiva in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie]

Hiya Lizzielizzielizzie and thank you.

We were told after our 2nd miscarriage that I might have a blood clotting condition so had some more blood tests done which came back positive so thought we were all sorted so started on blood thinners yet miscarried our 3rd and 4th time so they don’t really know now, we are just waiting to hear back from some specialist before we try again. xxx

[Lizzielizzielizzie in reply to 80sDiva]

Oh how frustrating! Best of luck with your specialist appointment.

[80sDiva in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie]

Thank you and all the best to you hun 😘 xxx

[TTCs]

Hi 80sDiva! WELCOME! What a journey u have been on! Im sure u will get lots of support ans advice on here! X

[80sDiva in reply to TTCs]

Hiya TTCs and thank you 😊 xxx

[Lisamarie4583]

Hi 80s I’m new to this too been trying for 14 years and nothing first try of ivf started buserelin injection 10days ago feel fine but really concerned as I haven’t had a bleed is this normal do u know as I’m supposed to do gonal f on sat omg I just don’t know what to do

Really sorry to hear about your rollercoaster ride but hopefully everything will be fine and you will conceive soon sorry for ranting

Thanks xxx

[80sDiva in reply to Lisamarie4583]

Hiya hun we have had 5 cycles of IVF so I should be a pro by now lol but I flap over everything every time 😊 My fiancé comes to every appointment with me because its a lot to take in and I always feel like I’m going to forget something, don’t be afraid to ask them to repeat what they have told you and always have your plan to hand if you’re unsure of anything double check with your fertility doctor as you don’t want to miss anything, I know you probably know all this but its the best advice I can give you oh and just try and relax xxx

[Cinderella5]

Welcome, there's quite a few newbies recently along with a good few of us that have been here for what feels like a long long time! Sorry to hear of your losses. This is a really supportive forum so you've come to the right place!xx

[80sDiva in reply to Cinderella5]

Hiya Cinderella5 and thank you.

Wishing you all the best on your journey, keep us posted xxx

[Goodthingscome]

Welcome and sorry for the journey you have been on. I am also 40 (41 in a few weeks), 2 Fresh and 1 FET all unsuccessful, then a relationship breakdown so I am going it alone with SD hopefully in a few months time. I'll be keeping a look out for your posts and wishing you lots of luck xx

[80sDiva in reply to Goodthingscome]

Hello to you Goodthingscome and thank you.

It sounds like you’ve had a rough time, wishing you all the best on your journey and over the next few months xxx