Heard the above song last night and thought I’d share to bring some words, comfort to others in a similar situation? ...I’m really struggling with my grief again now, it’s all hit me like a train. I just don’t understand it xx
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Grieve is hard and it will come and go when we least expect it hun, I'm sorry your feeling this way but don't beat yourself up about it hun it's normal, I'm afraid to listen to the song now as I feel I'll cry and once I do I won't stop. I'm currently experiencing a loss and going epu today to investigate the spotting I know what it is. Iv had enough to familiarize myself with it, this one getting to me more think because of me feeling really positive about it. I just want you to know hun that there's no time on grief and we all deal with it in different ways, I'm always here if you want to talk hun I find it easier to talk to those who just get it, this forum is amazing so are you and your time will come lovely. I'll listen to the song when I get back from hospital that's when I'll allow myself to cry. Big hugs lovely remember it's ok not to be ok 💗💗🤗😘😘
I’m so sorry to hear this 😔 to go through this once is heartbreaking enough 💔 I’ve got everything crossed that today turns out better than you expect it to 😘 xxx
My first ever loss back in 09 totally messed me up I was 13.5 weeks , I know how your feeling hun it's difficult and feels never ending, I must admit iv got used to it in a, way I half expect it everytime now I feel I deal with it better each time than the last but my last 2 losses I haven't allowed myself to grieve and I know that's what is getting to me now I mean I fell on straight away after loss in November no period. We didn't try but obvs it only takes once So now I need to give my head and body a rest.
You let it out when you need too come and talk with us when you need too. Songs help loads I'll defo listen later on.
I longed for for you for all of that time 🎶 so fitting for my 2 precious babies ❤️
Thank you for sharing, I to have been ‘hit’ with a new wave of grief recently. I think only in time we learn to live with the pain I don’t think it’s ever something that goes away xx
What a beautiful song, very emotional! Sending you huge hugs xx
I’m so sorry for your loss- I been there in July I lost a baby at 4 and a half weeks after ttc nearly 6 years 😭💔
I still cry over my loss but it’s less often.
It’s particularly painful after struggling to conceive 😔
But hold onto the hope you can fall- with infertility this in itself can be a difficult battle. And remember just because you lost this one doesn’t mean you will next time. ❤️
Allow yourself to shout, scream, swear, cry, weep and wail I know I did when I lost my baby 💔
Grief can be a very confusing process. You think you're getting somewhere then it can hit again like a ton of bricks. Im sure this song will speak to alot of people! Thinking of u xx
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