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So this morning when i wiped i had small dark clots on the tissue. Up until now its been calm sailing so im in total melt down.

I have spoken to the clinic who said it could be normal with the pessaries causing irritation to my cervix.

I have my viability scan in the morning but im so nervous now i just hope it isnt all over.

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Amys797

I know it’s incredibly difficult but try not to assume the worst. There are a few reasons and everything might be fine. Be good to yourself till the morning and try to take your mind off it although that is difficult. Treat your to Your favourite food, put on a good movie and try to relax. In the morning you will know more and you will cross whichever bridge you have to them. Good luck xx

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Sjmackel

Honestly try not to worry. I have bled A LOT and I am now 20 weeks (once at 9 weeks where we had to go to a+e it was so heavy). You could have a small hematoma, it could just be the pessaries, it could just be your body expelling old stuff and doing it's thing. We are all different. Dont presume it's over, if it's just when you wipe then I'd say you are going to be fine. Just for some context my big bleed at 9 weeks involved waking up in a blood soaked bed and then curling up on the bathroom floor from the cramps, but my peanut still held on and was still there after the scan! That has all calmed down now thank goodness but I was sure it was over.

I would say get some rest, drink lots of water but don't presume the worst. Let us know how you get on. x x

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Mrsgled1982. Oh you poor poppet! I agree with what the clinic have told you. Hopefully just down to the pessaries irritating your cervix, or not coming away fully after "melting". Brown stuff is usually down to "old" stuff coming away, so I wouldn't worry unless you get bright red bleeding that fills a pad. I will be thinking of you tomorrow, and hope all is well. Diane

Try not to get too worried about it yet. I had a bleed at 6 weeks with clots and cramps and then had a scan at 6 + 3 days and then went on to bleed again that afternoon clots and cramps with it soaking through my clothes but all turned out fine and they couldn’t explain it. I carried on bleeding old blood until 10 weeks. Rest up and drink plenty.

Good luck for your scan xx

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Mrsgled1982

When i did my pessaries last night it did feel sore up there. Ive had no more clots since this morning. I did a test and it still showed i was pregnant ive had back ache on and off so far but no other cramping like pains.

The only thing that really concerns me is that about 3 weeks ago my sore boobs disappeared.

I hope its nothing but i just cant shake the feeling that im going to get bad news tomorrow.

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Lolepops in reply to Mrsgled1982

Good luck for your scan tomorrow x x x

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vansoire in reply to Mrsgled1982

If it wasn’t red you should be fine! My boobs stopped being as sore a couple of weeks ago and are now just a bit veiny. The backache is awful though - had to amazon prime one of those maternity pillows yesterday as the pain is waking me up in the night! I’ve not really had any sickness or nausea either yet. Good luck for your scan - I’ve got mine on Weds and can’t wait! Sending positive vibes 😘🍀

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Kattalex

Positive thoughts for you for tomorrow 🌈🌈🌈🌈

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