Update ..... and the Pregnancy Ended

[kumkums]

Hi everyone,

I thought I should give an update after I posted about my bfp some weeks ago. So at the 7 weeks scan, we saw an empty sac and we were immediately transferred to EPU. I had very high hcg value (31,000 at 7wks 3days and 47K 48 hours after) and they advised us to watch how it progress.

The sac kept increasing in size, but no sight of the baby. After 3 weeks, I opted for medical management and this failed on two attempts (first attempt administered sublingually and second attempt - via the vagina). So I opted for surgical management.

I had surgical management yesterday, it went very well and I felt I should have gone straight for it, because the pain and cramps I experienced with the pill wasn't funny at all.

Thank you to everyone that messaged me. I know we are all heading towards the same destination, though our paths and routes are different, but I pray we all get there safe and sound. To all the wonderful and strong ladies out there, I wish you the best, let's continue to forge ahead.

Love you all.

[Saf4Naz]

Awww I'm so sorry to hear about this stay strong my prayers are with you xxx 🙏🙏❤️❤️

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Really sorry to read this hun. Such a sad time. Be good to yourself and take time to grieve. Hoping 2018 is a much better year for us all. Lots of love and hugs 💗💗🤗😘

[Scarlett13]

I'm really sorry to hear this and the ordeal you've been through since the news x

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this, sending huge hugs x

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry...thinking of you!xx

[Penders]

I've been thinking about you and wondering how you were getting on. sending big hugs to you xxxx

[kumkums in reply to Penders]

Thanks so much. I am doing well.

[kumkums]

Thank you everyone. I am grateful.

[ClarabGlasgow]

So sorry . You sound like you are holding up, well done you, can’t be easy x

[Phoebenooby]

Sending hugs xx

[Squeak2]

Lots of hugs to you xx

[Shanks_21]

So sorry to hear this sending big hugs xxxx

[E_05]

So sorry to hear all you’ve been through, it’s heartbreaking enough but when medical management doesn’t work it just adds more. Look after yourself xx

[kumkums in reply to E_05]

It is a toture. But thank God I'm out of it. I hope you are doing well too? How did the visit to FIL go?

[E_05 in reply to kumkums]

I’m getting there, my Hubby was in shock and I think still is as my FIL prognosis isn’t looking good. Thank you for asking x

[Sunshine09]

So sorry hunny, thinking of you, never give up on your dream 💋💋😘

[kumkums in reply to Sunshine09]

Thanks. How's baby doing?

[Sunshine09 in reply to kumkums]

Baby doing great another scan on wed, can’t wait just want to no everything still ok, your turn is coming hunny, 2018 will be your year 🤞💗💙🌈💋💋

[kumkums in reply to Sunshine09]

Thank you. Don't worry Wednesday will soon be here. Good luck with scan.

[Emmyeve]

I’m very sorry to hear this. I’m sorry to ask, but what exactly does this mean? What had happened? How did you achieve a positive if no pregnancy? New to all this so please excuse my ignorance xx

[kumkums in reply to Emmyeve]

Hi Emmyeve. It's funny how ivf opens our eye to a lot of things.

So a bit of explanations, I had a bfp cos I was actually pregnant but unfortunately the pregnancy wasn't a viable one. The sac is where the baby grows in, so the pregnancy started developing and for whatever reasons, the tissue that should form the baby stopped growing - hence no baby but sac.

This will still produce hcg depending if tissues continue to grow because they all make up the pregnancy.

In summary, pregnant but not a viable pregnancy. I hope I was able to explain well to you.

Have a good weekend.

[sk85]

I'm so sorry to hear this.take care of yourself hun x

[kumkums]

Thanks for the well wishes everyone. I'm doing well today.

[Hidden]

I am very sorry... Wish you recover soon. You sound so generous even when going through this. Hope you all the best xxx

[Amanda86]

So sorry kumkums 🙁 Thinking of you xxx

[Tugsgirl]

Truly sorry xx

[klh386]

So sorry for all you've gone through, but you have come out so strong. Much love! xx